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I am absolutely heartbroken and need some support please

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Microbe
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 4:45 am
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Hey LL Forum it's ben a while since I had last posted. First of all I will update you on my physical condition and the good news is that I have not encountered and pain after removing the rods. I can do short distance running and going to the gym and working out is not an issue anymore.
Now moving on to some personal problems that I have been encountering. Right now as I'm typing tears is running down my face and absolutely devastated, heart broken and please I don't want any troll but some support to help me go through this hell that I'm feeling.
I had met this girl few months ago, initially she wasn't interested in any relationship besides being fiends, however it seemed that we went on well with one another, we connected well, enjoyed our time talking one another and started showing signs of moving out of the friendzone and progressing further. This is what I really wanted most of my life, a girl like this and I thought I had found someone that I could share together our experience. However I found out recently that one of my other friend has been sleeping in her bedroom, since her room mate is out for a few days. I asked her if they are dating or some sort of relationship is going on between them and she denied and told me that they are studying together. What is really bothering me is that I don't know what is going on and it totally broke my heart, seemed like my whole world has crumbled. In relation to height she is a bit shorter than me, however the other guy is a lanky and taller than me.
It would be great if people here would share their similar experiences if they had any like this and how did you recover from this? I just don't know what to do or react, this is the first time this has happened to me. I really want to be with her. 
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 5:13 am
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Quote from: Microbe on June 01, 2019, 04:45:31 AMHey LL Forum it's ben a while since I had last posted. First of all I will update you on my physical condition and the good news is that I have not encountered and pain after removing the rods. I can do short distance running and going to the gym and working out is not an issue anymore.
Now moving on to some personal problems that I have been encountering. Right now as I'm typing tears is running down my face and absolutely devastated, heart broken and please I don't want any troll but some support to help me go through this hell that I'm feeling.
I had met this girl few months ago, initially she wasn't interested in any relationship besides being fiends, however it seemed that we went on well with one another, we connected well, enjoyed our time talking one another and started showing signs of moving out of the friendzone and progressing further. This is what I really wanted most of my life, a girl like this and I thought I had found someone that I could share together our experience. However I found out recently that one of my other friend has been sleeping in her bedroom, since her room mate is out for a few days. I asked her if they are dating or some sort of relationship is going on between them and she denied and told me that they are studying together. What is really bothering me is that I don't know what is going on and it totally broke my heart, seemed like my whole world has crumbled. In relation to height she is a bit shorter than me, however the other guy is a lanky and taller than me.
It would be great if people here would share their similar experiences if they had any like this and how did you recover from this? I just don't know what to do or react, this is the first time this has happened to me. I really want to be with her.


Height is not a substitute for style, status, wealth, dck size, social awkwardness, dressing nice, personality, etc

If you believe getting taller will make every female want you, you are retarded. You can still be 7 foot with no game
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 5:21 am
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Quote from: Activatedx on June 01, 2019, 05:13:31 AM
Height is not a substitute for style, status, wealth, dck size, social awkwardness, dressing nice, personality, etc
I don't want to brag but this is going for me compared to the other guy. (Don't know about the dck size of the other guy though)
Quote from: Activatedx on June 01, 2019, 05:13:31 AMIf you believe getting taller will make every female want you, you are retarded. You can still be 7 foot with no game
This is true but it makes me wonder if that extra height on the other guy may have given him the advantage?
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 5:37 am
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Hi Microbe

I feel sorry for you and understand how you feel.  I am sure many guys out there have had similar experience like girls on date or in a relationship betrayed you and slept with other guys.  This happens quite often.  I had this too.  In my case, it was much more serious than yours.  I was in that relationship with ex for over 5 years but suddenly found she was with some other guy.  The reason for this happening was not about height since the other guy was even shorter than me.  I think it is just a destiny.  I am pretty sure it is not about height for you either.  She is not your fate and may not deserve one for you.  I guess you are still young so just move on and forget about her. 

Don't make connection with your height!  Just she is not the one for you.  Don't chase girls which is wasting your life.  Focus on your career and success.  You will find the better one someday. 

Good luck!
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 7:33 am
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Quote from: Activatedx on June 01, 2019, 05:13:31 AM
Height is not a substitute for style, status, wealth, dck size, social awkwardness, dressing nice, personality, etc

If you believe getting taller will make every female want you, you are retarded. You can still be 7 foot with no game

Height is a requirement.

Imagine if you were handsome, but you only have one arm. You will repulse women.

Same goes with height, you're required to be as tall as other men.
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 9:01 am
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Quote from: Bruce Wayne on June 01, 2019, 07:33:48 AMHeight is a requirement.

Imagine if you were handsome, but you only have one arm. You will repulse women.

Same goes with height, you're required to be as tall as other men.


I agree. I’m just saying all the other stuff is a requirement too
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 1:03 pm
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Quote from: Activatedx on June 01, 2019, 09:01:12 AM
I agree. I’m just saying all the other stuff is a requirement too

I disagree. Those stuffs you mention are supplementary. You can have it but you don't have to. Most of them are not even legit.

dck size is the only legit thing I see there, but... Yes, big dck is great. But it's more like a bonus than a dealbreaker. Imagine there's an attractive white female who doesn't have big boobs. I believe most men won't turn her down. While height for men is an equivalent to weight for women. Many of us can easily turn down fat women because we're just too repulsed by them even if we're desperate. We'd rather be with an average-looking fit girl than a beautiful whale.

Status Yeah could be. I can see how a 5'7" UFC Lightweight Champion would be seen kind of hot by women.

Wealth is bull . Money doesn't make women horny. I can't remember the last white girl who was wet for Jack Ma. If you wanna go down this route. Forget LL, use the money for working girls and save yourself a lot of trouble.

Style, social skills, grooming, personality are all trivial stuffs and too easy to fix to the point where you shouldn't even bother to factor them.
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 2:29 pm
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Quote from: Microbe on June 01, 2019, 04:45:31 AMHey LL Forum it's ben a while since I had last posted. First of all I will update you on my physical condition and the good news is that I have not encountered and pain after removing the rods. I can do short distance running and going to the gym and working out is not an issue anymore.
Now moving on to some personal problems that I have been encountering. Right now as I'm typing tears is running down my face and absolutely devastated, heart broken and please I don't want any troll but some support to help me go through this hell that I'm feeling.
I had met this girl few months ago, initially she wasn't interested in any relationship besides being fiends, however it seemed that we went on well with one another, we connected well, enjoyed our time talking one another and started showing signs of moving out of the friendzone and progressing further. This is what I really wanted most of my life, a girl like this and I thought I had found someone that I could share together our experience. However I found out recently that one of my other friend has been sleeping in her bedroom, since her room mate is out for a few days. I asked her if they are dating or some sort of relationship is going on between them and she denied and told me that they are studying together. What is really bothering me is that I don't know what is going on and it totally broke my heart, seemed like my whole world has crumbled. In relation to height she is a bit shorter than me, however the other guy is a lanky and taller than me.
It would be great if people here would share their similar experiences if they had any like this and how did you recover from this? I just don't know what to do or react, this is the first time this has happened to me. I really want to be with her.

Hey, Microbe. Good to see you. Let's talk over PMs.

The forums are too full of psychos, and it will probably only make things worse for you.
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Posted on Jun 1, 2019, 7:34 pm
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Quote from: Bruce Wayne on June 01, 2019, 01:03:34 PMI disagree. Those stuffs you mention are supplementary. You can have it but you don't have to. Most of them are not even legit.

dck size is the only legit thing I see there, but... Yes, big dck is great. But it's more like a bonus than a dealbreaker. Imagine there's an attractive white female who doesn't have big boobs. I believe most men won't turn her down. While height for men is an equivalent to weight for women. Many of us can easily turn down fat women because we're just too repulsed by them even if we're desperate. We'd rather be with an average-looking fit girl than a beautiful whale.

Status Yeah could be. I can see how a 5'7" UFC Lightweight Champion would be seen kind of hot by women.

Wealth is bull . Money doesn't make women horny. I can't remember the last white girl who was wet for Jack Ma. If you wanna go down this route. Forget LL, use the money for working girls and save yourself a lot of trouble.

Style, social skills, grooming, personality are all trivial stuffs and too easy to fix to the point where you shouldn't even bother to factor them.



It differs by the females standards, there are pretty females that will date a 5’4 guy. I was at my brother in laws coworkers bday party and I remember seeing this beautiful mixed girl with a black guy that was about 5’4, later on I found out it was his wife and they have kids. But that’s like .001 of them. I don’t mean you have to have exceed in those things I listed, but by being average height,wealth, hygiene, etc it will have a night and day difference when it comes to women.

I agree some are more important than the other, there are PLENTY of girls that will definitely date broke guys but not guys under average height or under 6ft.  Some women don’t care about sex at all, so dck size may not even matter but that doesn’t mean theyll accept your micropenis. A lot of women do care.
There are plenty of good looking short rich guys that will pull, I’m one of them. I’m not gonna lie, I wear foot inserts and with them I’m 5’8, about to be 22, and I have a Porsche and a bmw i8 (I afford it by renting one or both out on the weekend which pays my note off by itself and I’m on my older sisters insurance, got them used and they are nearly half price of new)

women have never been a problem with me, Yes there are women that im sure would talk to me if I was taller, but there are more than enough pretty girls that still talk to me. Way I see it too is status gives you height, it really does. Not to sound arrogant but when you have an exotic and all these guys my age dckride you feel above them.

CLL is just an insecurity and mental  thing. Plus if I meet someone I really like I’m the future I’ll eventually have to take my shoes off lol. There are also always exceptions, there was this one girl beautiful girl that worked at a Breasturant. I knew from my other friend,  that one time posted on her Instagram a meme (it was like Steve Harvey saying GOODBYE and the caption was “when you ask how tall he is and he says 5’9”). I was like cool I don’t have a chance. Fastforward a couple months, my friend and her are together (they’re both girls) and they wanted to go out. I pick both of them up we go to the club, we have fun and I take my friend home because she’s closer, and then I start taking her friend home without anything sexual in mind. I was just going to drop her off, she showed zero interest in me prior. On the way to her place she starts hitting on me and touching me, when we get to her place she invites me over for the night and we hooked up. And we did again a few more times in private. Then she moved To Washington, 3rd or 4th saddest day in my life, she was gorgeous 
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