The psychologist will not be able to find a solution to the height obsession, care should be taken when choosing a lover, our height obsession inevitably increases. I have never been afraid of the blood catheter but the ll frightens me.
See the psychologist anyway. Wear elevator shoes, but I know when you see someone taller than you, you'll be depressed again.
Again, it's not about curing height neurosis, it's to stop him from wanting to goddamn kill himself and be extremely depressed.
Quote from: drxboom on August 27, 2020, 02:06:33 PMThe psychologist will not be able to find a solution to the height obsession, care should be taken when choosing a lover, our height obsession inevitably increases. I have never been afraid of the blood catheter but the ll frightens me.
See the psychologist anyway. Wear elevator shoes, but I know when you see someone taller than you, you'll be depressed again.
It's not the blood catheter, It's the urine catheter. But yes, elevator shoes can't do nothing. It's like, tricking yourself.
Quote from: ghkid2019 on August 27, 2020, 02:09:07 PMAgain, it's not about curing height neurosis, it's to stop him from wanting to goddamn kill himself and be extremely depressed.
I'll try it. I hope it helps without fking my brain in a worse way than actual (drugs). Maybe it'd help.
Quote from: a on August 27, 2020, 02:13:38 PMIt's not the blood catheter, It's the urine catheter. But yes, elevator shoes can't do nothing. It's like, tricking yourself.
I'll try it. I hope it helps without fking my brain in a worse way than actual (drugs). Maybe it'd help.
I know very well what a katerker is. Such an operation and a bad post-operative period will wait.
Quote from: a on August 27, 2020, 02:13:38 PMIt's not the blood catheter, It's the urine catheter. But yes, elevator shoes can't do nothing. It's like, tricking yourself.
I'll try it. I hope it helps without fking my brain in a worse way than actual (drugs). Maybe it'd help.
If you ever need to talk, DMs open. I am here for u
Quote from: ghkid2019 on August 27, 2020, 02:25:23 PMIf you ever need to talk, DMs open. I am here for u
Thank you so much ghkid, the forum needs more people like you. You are such a nice and informative person. I wish you the best in your future. I hope you could achieve your dreams.
It may sound stupid, but try to find a girlfriend who really loves you the way you are. Although this will not cure your height neurosis, it will certainly help you get rid of your suicidal thoughts. Don’t get me wrong, I’m also obsessed with height, but having a loving partner/family will help you understand that there are things in life far more important than being tall.
Hey Man,
Your height is not short, even if I do LL, will end up 2 cm below your height. Your height is my dream... think about that.
1) Try to tell this to your parents.
2) try to move to other places where you feel confident ( Korea, Singapore, Mexico, India etc).
3) if this is all trigger by a girl, give this some more time ... incase you, can't find love... Probably that agony will make you strong enough to go through this.
4) Nobody is happy, this is real-world ... you can't kill yourself because LL is easier than that.
5) Start training hard, pack some more muscles .. that way you will build some pain tolerance
6) this so-called minimum invasive procedure will not only impact femurs or tibias but will compromise knee or hips. Not sure if our height will bother us after 6-7 years from now.
That's just my opinion, other people on this forum are more intelligent than me.
Quote from: O_99 on August 27, 2020, 01:28:24 PMDon't ever look the when you do a blood test. I did that mistake once and "got white".
I'm in a similar position with you. Blood tests, needles, catheters, etc make me sick.
Even if I had the money I probably wouldn't do LL for that reason, and for the procedure pain, the permanent pain and associated risks of course. We need a better method.
Pay attention to new topic related research that's coming out, even if you have to wait a decade for it to become available it's worth it. Have you tried LSJL?
Psychiatrists and psycologists probably won't do anything, but you can try.
Quote from: extremis on May 11, 2018, 06:20:02 PMIt's pretty stupid and ignorant to call orthopedic surgeons with years of experience in performing a surgical procedure "blowhard charlatans". There is a massive difference between being a "psychologist" and being an orthopedic surgeon.
Psychology is a pseudoscience. It doesn't take skill, knowledge, or schooling to sit in a chair, look some gullible and depressed guy in the eye, and tell him everything is going to be okay, things aren't as bad as they look, it's what's on the inside that counts, there's more to life than being tall/having sxx/getting respect, and so on.
You don't need to go to school to do this. Anyone can do it. Plenty of people on this forum, like you and myloginacct, do it all the time.
You CANNOT perform surgical procedures, deal with complications, monitor recovery, and so on without profound scientific acumen.
Preferable? Lol. I've met plenty of short men who have had CLL, recovered (to different extents), and were happy with the results, with their quality of life being increased significantly in every case. Not all of them are ecstatic or as happy as they would have been if they had been born tall, but most are certainly able to stop obsessing about their height.
The evidence is in the fact that so many of the writers of the patient diaries we have on this site (and old forum ) moved on after their diary was completed and never came back.
Meanwhile, I've yet to meet a single short man who was cured of his short stature-induced depression by "therapy" or "psychology" of any kind.
Quote from: a on August 27, 2020, 12:50:29 PMEven though i'm so fkn obsessed with my height as much as I want to kill myself almost on a daily basis, I'm not sure if i can do LL, it's my one and only option.
A week ago, I went to see the doc to check my blood values. I'm not even afraid of giving blood, nor am I afraid from blood collection needles.
While my blood was filling the tubes, I focused at the tube; normally it really is not recommended to look at the tubes while giving your blood because it might cause instant pressure drop.
I was happy, I looked at the tube and told the nurse, "Well, it's so weird. The blood is filling the tube too fast." and after that I laughed, then suddenly, I passed out.
I didn't even realise that I passed out cause everything was going smooth, as soon as I opened my eyes I realised that I passed out because the nurses and my mother were anxious. As soon as I woke up I smiled and said that I'm good, then they told me that I passed out. I was shocked, first time me passing out btw.
The point is, even though I focused at the tube, it's still very unlikely to have a pressure drop I guess. I feel like my body is too sensitive.
I also thought about the catheter, even writing the word "catheter" made me feel nauseous. That's how sensitive my body is. If I won't be able to deal with the tiniest thing about the procedure, such as having a catheter, how the hell am I going to have the surgery and have a MODIFICATION into my legs while knowing it for such a long time? I feel like i'd feel nauseous all the fkn time.
The worst thing is, there is NO goddamn option but LL. I want to be taller and fit the goddamn clothes. I don't want to wear thick as fk shoes. I cannot even put my vans, because its height boost is low.
I feel like suicide is way easier, please don't trash talk. I'm being reasonable. I don't think I can handle this procedure, but as I mentioned before, this height neurosis makes me want to kill myself. I literally feel angry and agressive all the time just because of my body. The only reason causes it is my height. I need to change it, but in some other way.
I just wish that there was a pill which could re-generate your goddamn growth plates.. just imagine. No fkn osteotomy. No fkn nails.
What should I do? Does anyone have ideas? How can I not be a pxssy? I try to think about those people who did both segments lengthening, how did they even handle it?
Best Regards, sorry for the puke out. I just had to.
You will never do this LL procedure. Those who thunder don't rain
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