Quote from: Want More on September 26, 2015, 12:25:00 AMUppland i don't realise why you feel short,you don't live in Balcan's countries.
He lives in northern europe though, so the situation is quit comparable.
Quote from: Want More on September 26, 2015, 12:25:00 AMUppland i don't realise why you feel short,you don't live in Balcan's countries.
I'm swedish the average here is 4CM lower than Hercegovina but I'm also 2CM shorter than you. Would you not feel short even if you were 2CM taller?
Quote from: Uppland on September 25, 2015, 08:40:45 PMYou've got nothing to back that up but it doesn't matter anyway. You're short like the rest of us and you can gain perhaps 5-7CM through this surgery, after that you will have to accept your body.
Im average for my ethnicity, im not an caucasian. My height doesnt bother me. It would only bother me if i stunted my growth
I call bull .
your on this thread and wanted to break your legs in half save up tens of thousands, go through months of pain, possible permanently fk your self up both athletically and aestetically , destroy 2 possibly more years fo your life recovering and probably loose your job, plus much more im not even listing.
and now your trying to tell me this bull .....
your basically saying I am completely inadequate and pathetic which is why I must go through all this to be taller................ BUT NOW!!!!! its ok that im short inadequate and pathetic because I was naturally short inadequate and naturally pathetic. therefore I no longer care about getting this surgery because all the I feel about myself is natural therefore I no longer feel the feelings iv felt my whole life.....
you understand that your lying to your self?
the real reason for your post is because your trying to convince yourself you don't need surgery because of any number of the painful or scary reasons I listed above.
your argument is not even logical or coherent. you don't stop feeling things because it was natural. your either short or your tall, there is no im naturally short but man id be so inadequate if I was the same height but I was meant to be taller.
i am 178 at the moment.. do you think i would feel tall if i did 6 cm and got to 184cm.. is it worth it? at the moment i feel below average even though im probably technically just about average.. Im from the united states.. is there anyone that has gone to 184cmwho can tell me if you feel tall or not?
First of all i didn't felt my whole life insecure about my life as you listed, only the last 2 months cuz my family said my lil bro was taller, im shorter than my dad and didnt ate healthy as a teenager. Now i found out im as tall as my brother and didnt stunted my growth so i'm feeling good now. So your statement that i felt this my whole life is bull statement number 1. Than you said no man will ever feel not bad about because it was natural. Did you investigate them all over the world?? Best prove against it are some posts over here of some members claiming they would never have height neurosis if they were as tall as their siblings or lived healthier as a teen. We are at bull statement nr 2 now. I knew since the beginning LL is very painful but still wanted ut and now i still want it but i am not angry on myself anymore because i taught i stunted my growth. So yes i want still LL because iwant to be taller but i dob't think about it the whole day because i know it isn't my fault. So yes i lost my height neurosis because i am not depressed and angry on myself because i taught it was my fault. But i still wanna do LL vecause i wanna be taller but i'm not depressed or angry anymore. I can live with that. Conclusion: don't judge people without knowing them.
its annoying when people lie to themselves.
listen up good hollandaa.
you want to get leg lengthening................ therefore you ARE UNHAPPY WITH YOUR HEIGHT.
its real simple.
Quote from: MRbones on September 26, 2015, 07:51:14 PMits annoying when people lie to themselves.
listen up good hollandaa.
you want to get leg lengthening................ therefore you ARE UNHAPPY WITH YOUR HEIGHT.
its real simple.
Theres an difference between unhappy about your height and height neurosis. Height neurosis means you are very depressed about your height and think the whole day about it. I'm not like that anymore but i still wabt to be taller. But that doesn't mean i suffer from height neurosis since i'm still happy about my life. Read the thread line first before you judge me. I didn't say i'm happy with my height or don't want LL anymore i said i lost my height neurosis because i'm finally able to be happy again. Think before you speak
ok now we re getting somewhere.
ok listen up.
you did not loose height neurosis which is what your thread title states.
you lost something called guilt.
so I am correcting it.
height neurosis actually specifically is when the level of external discrimination that you receive does not match the magnitude of your perception for the amount of external discrimination you receive.
as you are 5"8 it is very difficult to know whether you have height neurosis or not.
but 1 thing is certain, you did not loose it.
you only have 2 possible scenarios as options, you never had height neurosis or you still have height neurosis. but you did not loose it.
the only way for me to know if you have height neurosis would be to know the magnitude of your perception for the level of discrimination you receive. but because you are 5"8 its not really possible to do that.
ps if you are happy that you lost guilt
and you are not happy with your height.
it is very inaccurate to say you lost your height neurosis from that.
it just means you are more happy than you used to be. but you still feel inadequate.
if you did not feel inadequate you would not be getting leg lengthening.
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