Quote from: shortguy4cll on December 14, 2018, 10:35:11 AMmaybe..maybe not but short girls dont have a problem finding romantic partners. ..short guys do. Plus I dont mean to be cynical but happens in life. Its better to do what you are doing now..get the surgery so you can always keep your options open.
Ye its true she fell in love with the person who was 183 cm tall, not 178cm, but I feel like even if I told her I was 178 cm from the whole begining our relationship would still be the same but well, i'll take my chances and tell her, if she doesnt like it, i'll just get new one if that works, regardless I will do LL the next winter when I am 20 so idk I have irl friend I will speak to later today about this, he knows about the shoes ive worn when I met her etc but I told him ive already told her my real height so I double problems now lol
Maybe I am cynical about my height. But people change. Just because she has positive feelings now about your height doesnt mean it wont change. People have a tendency to throw our weakness or flaws back at us when they are angry at others.
Provided she has taken her shoes off as well, I doubt she would notice. Even if she does notice I doubt she would say anything - I expect most girls are more concerned with how tall you look when you are walking with them in public or in photos. If she does complain then tell her she doesn't look that great without her make up either and you're not complaining 
Quote from: shortguy4cll on December 14, 2018, 10:50:05 AMMaybe I am cynical about my height. But people change. Just because she has positive feelings now about your height doesnt mean it wont change. People have a tendency to throw our weakness or flaws back at us when they are angry at others.
What is your height? But it's true people laugh back at you when they are angry, some of my girlfriends friends have seen me and some are about 170 if I see them when im about 178 im pretty sure they will notice as one of her friend complimented my height at 183cm
Quote from: Ascending on December 14, 2018, 12:10:26 PMProvided she has taken her shoes off as well, I doubt she would notice. Even if she does notice I doubt she would say anything - I expect most girls are more concerned with how tall you look when you are walking with them in public or in photos. If she does complain then tell her she doesn't look that great without her make up either and you're not complaining
Well I don't have much options, if I would have done LL soon then wouldnt be a problem but I think better I tell her then she finds out and it all gets cringy and awkward lol. She wants to go bowling, ice skating etc and all those stuff i will be forced to take my shoes off, we'll even have same shoes but i've ordered 2cm shoelift that will be here in 1-2 weeks, but its easier hiding 2cm lift than 6cm
Quote from: kevin9k9 on December 14, 2018, 08:58:43 AMLied about my height because I thought i'd do LL this winter, but i'll do it next winter and didnt think i'd even be in relationship with her.
I am 176cm no shoes, about 178 cm with my adidas sneakers. Everytime i've met her ive worn uncomfortable boots that are about 2/3cm high, with 4cm lift inside. When I wear them i'm about 182/3 cm. Next week is her birthday and i'll be coming over to her house for the first time and i'll probably take my shoes off, idk what to do. Should I tell her my real height?
She is 160 cm
Why do you have to take your shoes off? In Sweden, they keep their shoes on in the house in winter. Unless you will be horizontal with her, in which case that measurement doesn't matter 
She's 160cm.
She will never be able to really tell a difference of 4cm in someone who's that much taller than her.
If she does say anything, just say the shoes make you taller (which is the truth). You should worry about not showing insecurity.
If anything, you should have never wore such big lifts if you weren't comfortable in eventually telling her the truth. 178cm and 176cm are fine heights (she even told you that). However, if you claim to be 183cm when you're 176cm, she might notice it's off - even if she can't exactly tell by how much.
Quote from: Antonio on December 14, 2018, 01:51:32 PMWhy do you have to take your shoes off? In Sweden, they keep their shoes on in the house in winter. Unless you will be horizontal with her, in which case that measurement doesn't matter
Its the opposite, in Sweden house is supposed to be clean regardless of weather, every house ive been to ive been told to take off my shoes, even at my house I dont let people come in with shoes.
Quote from: myloginacc on December 14, 2018, 03:08:29 PMIf anything, you should have never wore such big lifts if you weren't comfortable in eventually telling her the truth. 178cm and 176cm are fine heights (she even told you that). However, if you claim to be 183cm when you're 176cm, she might notice it's off - even if she can't exactly tell by how much.
Im not going to show insecurity, matter of fact i'd feel more secure at 178 cm right now than 183 since the high boots are preventing me from doing many things. 1 thing you should never do is get into relationship if you wear above 5cm lifts. I was stupid at first I just really enjoyed being taller but now I realize it was the wrong decision. I thought i'd do LL 1 month later after I got her number but things happend and I cant do it til next winter. I think she will notice abit, but I hope it wont mean a great deal to her. Eitherway, If I lose her, then lesson learned.
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