One day a girl told me ..

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one day a girl with whom I was dating told me laughing: "I'm afraid to put on my heels for fear of being taller than you" .. (I'm 169cm)
now, even if it was a joking comment, it is known that there is always a bit of truth, of real thought. I laughed over it pressing, always laughing, but should be felt free to put them does not bother me .. But the reality is very different ..

1. She will never feel free to do so despite my answer, because she will think that maybe it bothers me to be shorter than a woman in public or simply does not like her to be taller than her man in public.

2. I lied to myself, it would actually be discouraging to me, it is not true that it would not be a problem.

CONCLUSION: this is a simple example, but how each of us in this forum has several of them for leading us to think about this surgery;
the truth is that you feel inadequate or more tragically you do not feel free to be yourself fully, I want to change my life to 29 years with this intervention to START to live without being afraid of being in default, I want to conquer the my life and my serenity.

So ... Come on guys! a hug.

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The point is not to be clear, that can also be.
The point is the fact. It annoys you when you do not indirectly allow your partner to feel free for fear of hurting you in pride by wearing heels and getting taller than you.
What I try to say is the reality of thought .. the girl in question loved me madly and yet the thought has even if ironically .. let alone if he had not loved me ..
I no longer want to feel inadequate in this field as in all the others because of my height