Quote from: NailedLegs on August 16, 2023, 02:40:47 AMPicture these two scenarios...
One is where you tell the town about your Limb Lengthening journey. Now, everyone will remember you as "the guy that went and paid a lot of money to get taller". That stigma will follow you everywhere you go in life, even years down the road. People will remember. 10 years...20 years...the town will know you as the guy that got Limb Lengthening surgery. At family get togethers...holidays...it'll be brought up by somebody and they'll talk about it. They'll joke about it. They'll ask questions about it. But it will follow you!
The second is where you don't tell anyone about your Limb Lengthening journey. Most people won't say anything because they have nothing to say, but will acknowledge you're taller. Some people will say, "Wow, you're a lot taller now. What happened?", and you can just respond with a shrug and say that you don't know. You just "had a growth spurt or something", and leave it at that. Nobody is going to keep pressuring you about it, because what can they say?
Most people don't know about this procedure, and even if they did, just deny everything. If they ask if you had Limb Lengthening surgery, just act confused like you have no idea what that is. They can't see inside your mind and your memories, so eventually they'll just drop it and accept you for being taller.
Very reasonable response. Do you know what isn’t reasonable tho? Suddenly leaving for 6 months to a year out of nowhere after being very active with people, just to miraculously show back up taller. Truthfully, do you actually believe that me simply saying “oh i grew taller” or smth like that will work in my situation? Im not some isolated guy living in a city where practically no one knows him at all. Im known in my area, people know roughly how tall i am because of some of the guys i hang with so theres no way gaslighting in this scenario would work. Even if i did a simple 2 inches id still get to like 5’10 from below average, thats not something that can be hidden.
Quote from: BestOfLuck on August 16, 2023, 03:08:04 PMVery reasonable response. Do you know what isn’t reasonable tho? Suddenly leaving for 6 months to a year out of nowhere after being very active with people, just to miraculously show back up taller. Truthfully, do you actually believe that me simply saying “oh i grew taller” or smth like that will work in my situation? Im not some isolated guy living in a city where practically no one knows him at all. Im known in my area, people know roughly how tall i am because of some of the guys i hang with so theres no way gaslighting in this scenario would work. Even if i did a simple 2 inches id still get to like 5’10 from below average, thats not something that can be hidden.
Then get new friends or move to a different city, simple as that. You definitely don't want to be the talk of gossip in a small town, something like this they'll never let go.
Larger cities are also much better for your dating prospects which is one of the main reasons to do LL to begin with.
My life lessons taught me that a shorter man who owns his physical traits and carries himself with self confidence is more attractive than a tall man who lacks confidence.
If you are taller because of surgery, it will more than likely cause an issue of low self esteem and low self confidence which will pivot around your life, and I'm not sure the height wil make it go away, for me it feels like the contrary, it will be an issue that may even cause distress of constant hiding and shame.
So bottom line, my opinion is - not to be open about it, not doing a too obvious lengthening (unless you're really short. As long as you're reaching a height around the average height of your community it's enough), and share it only with the closest, most reliable people in your life.
That's my opinion and I know it's an individual perspective of human experience...
Quote from: limby101 on August 16, 2023, 04:25:08 PMMy life lessons taught me that a shorter man who owns his physical traits and carries himself with self confidence is more attractive than a tall man who lacks confidence.
Life taught you wrong then.
And the two things are not mutually exclusive to begin with. As a matter of fact you're more likely to have muh confidence if you're tall because of positive social feedback given to taller men.
harsismobi and Legs890...
If you don't believe that confidence/personality is what matters, then look up statistics and what women actually cares in these as their first priority which isn't height for the majority. In life if you behave weak and unconfident but is tall, it will not get you anywhere and you will still be miserable. Believing something else is just being delusional... But being able to feel fully confident and comfortable being short is usually not possible for most, and that is where LL can do it's magic while making you little more attractive as a added bonus. Don't believe me then look up interviews Cyborg4life has done with the surgeons, where most of them say that the biggest difference the added height does to the patients is that their confidence go up, and opens up new doors in life for them.
Btw next time when arguing with someone act like an adult and discuss the actual topic instead of trying to attack someones character. That is what people with low iq or children does, and it's quite pathetic honestly that some grown men behave this weak way online...
Quote from: DanishViking on August 16, 2023, 05:23:57 PMharsismobi and Legs890...
Very nice intelligent respons with logical arguments used. If you don't believe that confidence is what matters, then look up statistics and what women actually cares in these as their first priority isn't height for the majority, and in life if you behave weak and unconfident but is tall, it will not get you anywhere and you will still be miserable. Believing something else is just being delusional... But being able to feel fully confident and comfortable being short is usually not possible for most, and that is where LL can do it's magic. Don't believe me then look up interviews Cyborg4life has done with the surgeons, where most of them say that the biggest difference the added height does to the patients is that their confidence go up, and opens up new doors in life for them.
Btw next time when arguing with someone act like an adult and discuss the actual topic instead of trying to attack someone character. That is what people with low iq or children does, and it's quite pathetic honestly that some grown men behave this weak way online...
Dont even waste your energy man
BestOfLuck
I agree it would not sound believeable but you could still give it a try if you want, since a small procentage of men grow in their early 20's. But at the end of the day you can either do the surgery and let people judge you or stay short and let more judgement be upon you. Either way I can understand your concern, but think that you will be better of just not caring and accepting that no matter what you do, some people will end up disliking you...
Quote from: DanishViking on August 16, 2023, 05:48:21 PMBestOfLuck
I agree it would not sound believeable but you could still give it a try if you want, since a small procentage of men grow in their early 20's. But at the end of the day you can either do the surgery and let people judge you or stay short and let more judgement be upon you. Either way I can understand your concern, but think that you will be better of just not caring and accepting that no matter what you do, some people will end up disliking you...
Friends and family already know, if it gets brought up when ive recovered ill just tell em the truth, afterall its only me thats truly bothered by my height and i just wanna be a bit taller. It doesnt affect anyone else. If they get it they get it if they dont thats fine, not everyone has to understand
Quote from: DanishViking on August 16, 2023, 05:23:57 PMharsismobi and Legs890...
If you don't believe that confidence/personality is what matters, then look up statistics and what women actually cares in these as their first priority which isn't height for the majority. In life if you behave weak and unconfident but is tall, it will not get you anywhere and you will still be miserable. Believing something else is just being delusional... But being able to feel fully confident and comfortable being short is usually not possible for most, and that is where LL can do it's magic while making you little more attractive as a added bonus. Don't believe me then look up interviews Cyborg4life has done with the surgeons, where most of them say that the biggest difference the added height does to the patients is that their confidence go up, and opens up new doors in life for them.
Btw next time when arguing with someone act like an adult and discuss the actual topic instead of trying to attack someones character. That is what people with low iq or children does, and it's quite pathetic honestly that some grown men behave this weak way online...
Not gonna "look up" a damn thing you soy guzzling virgin. Life perfectly clearly demonstrates its looks and height that matter over all else, especially for prime age women which are the only ones that matter.
Quote from: Legs890 on August 16, 2023, 06:18:36 PMNot gonna "look up" a damn thing you soy guzzling virgin. Life perfectly clearly demonstrates its looks and height that matter over all else, especially for prime age women which are the only ones that matter.
Stop bloating my threads with this 💩 ffs
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