9 centimeters on tibias with Dr. Barinov, Volgograd-Russia

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I am not a confident person all the time. Confidence is way over rated. Im only saying at 163 I was getting all I wanted from life that is all. And yes I cut my legs and grew 9cms and I had the most amazing time of my life))))


Quick update:::::

My doct told me I still need to get another week for frame removal. I thought I maybe I could do it today but my doc doesn't qant to take any risk. So one more week with crutches.

For the first time here im having a little bit of drama with gilrs (((((

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I too had beautiul girlfriends and great friendships at 165 cm. I had some wonderful times. But overall, I felt bad about myself. Now I don't. Other than that, much hasn't changed. Doesn't feeling good about yourself mean a lot anyway? If x happened or y happened, I blamed my height. Now I can blame the other person. Haha 

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RGKEY: Thanks for writing this diary. I know it has been quite a long journey, but eventually and hopefully, it will all be over soon.

I didn't even think to research on the doctors over there in Russia. I will definitely find out some more about them. However it does make me a little nervous as I have heard some reports on attacks on people that are not of Caucasian descent happening over in Russia. I want to have LL, but at the same time, I want to be safe as well.

Crimsontide: I overall agree with what you're saying. Women care about looks(especially height). If they didn't, I don't believe nearly half as people searching and inquiring about LL would be doing so.

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Quote from: Hallijah on April 06, 2014, 05:02:40 PM1. Face
2. Height
3. Penis's size
4. Intelligence
5. Status

1,2 and 3 will get you the 95 % of girls, 4 and 5 the other 5%....

You shouldn't mistaken porno for meeting girls in real life. Number 3 should be good at keeping long-term relationship but not at picking up decent/educated/beautiful women. Number 3 should be way down at the bottom of the list and number 4 should be way up top. Unless, you are just drop dead gorgeous (like Tom Cruise or Brad Pit) no one will want to sleep with you at first sight. That's why we need to do a little bit of scheming, which is why I think intelligent should be key. But I also think number 1 and 2 are important.. but those are not everything. As for me...

1. Need more work
2. See below
3. Don't even mention this!
4. Alright... university degree plus an okay job
5. Driving honda civic

See!! You don't need to be perfect. My life is still good.

Quote from: Wannabegiant on April 07, 2014, 09:00:47 AMshorter guys have a disadvantage absolutely but not from looks but from confidence!!

I have scored with:

Americans
Latin american girls
Sweden girls
thai girls
jamaican girls
russian girls
ukranian girls
belarussian girls
germany girls
canadian girls
australian girls
japaneses girls
oh and 1 nigerian girl lol

for the most part taller and better looking than i am. So if i could everyone can!!

Girls are the same from almost any nationality!!

Damn. This is one exotic list here.

Quote from: Wannabegiant on April 07, 2014, 12:40:21 PMWell honestly i havent really ever aggressively pursued a lasting relationship with a hot girl before, usually even if im doing well with her (kissing and feeling a large mutual attraction), i dont go all the way because i know i will have to work so hard for it since these girls have so many guys competing over them. I realize that eventually you will have to work hard but its not worth it if some other taller guy can come into her life and take over without having to work nearly as hard. I also realized that there is no point in a relationship before im done with LL, you need to be happy with yourself if you want such a relationship to last.

So while i might have a chance with those girls for long term, i rather be as good as i can be so i dont have to feel like im dating up in the foodchain, i rather want it to be like im as much as a catch as the girl is. So she realize that she also has to work a little because i have many options too.

I guess what im saying is that in my experience, quite a lot of girls seem to find me attractive, problem is that usually there is another guy or several other guys involved that has more leverage than i do. (taller, more status etc) It simply feels much better going into this game of competition when you are at a more level playing field.

We're in the same boat. It seems that your points and mine are similar. To improving our dating pool, we need to improve the person within! Women are not stupid (at least the smart one). They, like men, want the best they can get. That's why we need to constantly improve ourselves if we want to date the top female at the higher end of the beauty/status chain.

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Hi Cas, thank you for the cool words!))

You are the second person who ask me about this attacks.. im not well informed about this, all I can say is that I feel great here, taxi drivers, people in general are very nice to me and Im as brown as you can get, and some people even think im chinese, arabic, mexican, philipino but definately not white. Yeah, well people don't always search for the right things. Also, not always find the right information. From my own experiences good game does a lot more than height.

hey small guy:: yeah, that list cracks me up!! if that was true you and I wouldn't have girls in our life!! And i will still be a virgin))

chrissisaak:: i like the way you think))

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Quote from: crimsontide on April 07, 2014, 04:26:01 PMheight is very important...  and women value looks just as much as men... These are facts, and no amount of positive thinking or confidence is going to change  these things...  If you are 5'6 or below, and the most confident guy in the world, you're still going to have a much lower pct with girls than even a 5'9 guy

And adriano is 1000000%  right....  We are getting told that we should be happy with who we are, and  height doesn't matter, from a guy that broke both of his legs and lengthened his tibia 9 cm... which is a lot....None of us  is secure with ourselves or our height, otherwise we would not be breaking our healthy legs to get taller. A confident person does not do this.

I think the same.

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For me, the importance priority is;

1) Status
2) Intelligence
3) Height (physique)
4) Face
5) Penis size

"Status" is a huge thing. It doesn't necessarily have to be wealth. It could be popularity among a group, your social position in a group, or in extreme cases, fame. Fame as in "You're good/the best in what you do professionally". For instance, I'm now 5'8, but I think the 5'5 Jamie Cullum has better status than me. He's not world famous maybe (like Daniel Radcliffe) but his musical talent is beyond amazing, which is perhaps why he's married with a much taller, gorgeous woman like Sophie Dahl. He's good and innovating at what he does professionally, and that's a very attractive trait.

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If we are talking about have womans. Girlfriends. Etc

1) face
2) height
3) status
4) inteligence
5)  penis size





Quote from: ChrisIsaak on April 11, 2014, 09:23:51 AMFor me, the importance priority is;

1) Status
2) Intelligence
3) Height (physique)
4) Face
5) Penis size

"Status" is a huge thing. It doesn't necessarily have to be wealth. It could be popularity among a group, your social position in a group, or in extreme cases, fame. Fame as in "You're good/the best in what you do professionally". For instance, I'm now 5'8, but I think the 5'5 Jamie Cullum has better status than me. He's not world famous maybe (like Daniel Radcliffe) but his musical talent is beyond amazing, which is perhaps why he's married with a much taller, gorgeous woman like Sophie Dahl. He's good and innovating at what he does professionally, and that's a very attractive trait.

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You're underestimating intelligence. With a great face and height you could have a lot of one night stands, but without intelligence nothing will be long term. I'd rather spend time with an intelligent woman with average beauty rather than an unintelligent top model. But of course, that's just me. Everyone's different.

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Quote from: ChrisIsaak on April 11, 2014, 10:55:47 AMYou're underestimating intelligence. With a great face and height you could have a lot of one night stands, but without intelligence nothing will be long term. I'd rather spend time with an intelligent woman with average beauty rather than an unintelligent top model. But of course, that's just me. Everyone's different.

I think intelligence is quite hard to measure here, i mean when you say people value intelligence or that you want an intelligent partner, do you want someone that is MIT smart, or just someone average who isnt an idiot?

Because most average people fall into around the same average intelligence if they are from the same socio-cultural background. The differences in intelligence between these individuals would only become noticeable in unusual circumstances, or if both of you in the relationship are into fields like science or medicine etc. The other daily subjects that an average person would need to be able to handle are pretty easy for even "dumb" people. In fact some "less" intelligent people might in return have higher social competence or EQ (emotional intelligence), which would probably make these people more fun to hang around with rather than a guy like Sheldon from Big bang theory  There are many "less intelligent" people with pleasant personalities and many smart ones with obnoxious personalities.

I guess my point is, that as long as the person im dating or meeting doesnt seem to be an idiot, and has decent knowledge about all around education. (and this is quite easy to notice early on) Then intelligence isnt really much of a factor in terms of attraction, for me at least. I would guess quite a lot of people think like this, men and women, but i cant prove it.

So unless the person im dating is a complete idiot these are the most important values for me:

1.Face
2. Personality (this is different that intelligence)
3. Body (tits and ass, curves etc)
4. Intelligence
5. Height (needs to be shorter than me)

For one night stands however it looks more like this for me:

1. Body
2. Face
3. personality
4. Height (needs to be shorter than me)
5. Intelligence

I guess as i am a man, status doesnt affect me in my attraction for a woman. I know this is important for women though, so for them i guess it goes like this:

Dating:

1. Face
2. Height
3. Status
4. Personality
5. Intelligence 

One night stand:

1. Face
2. Height
3. Body
4. Personality
5. Status (status helps here of course but not as much because you can pretend to be someone special without repercursion for single encounters)