Quote from: RGKEY on April 12, 2014, 12:15:03 PMFunny because now that im 172 I still don't feel good about my height. It is really a never end story when we keep compering our selfs. So much insecurity I dislike it. Today I just got some girl s number but I still feel kinda weird about it because even thou she flirted with my and gave me a lot of rapport, the fact that im walking with a crutch and I stil havel a frame on my leg makes me feel like a little strange, specially when I know ill be free of frames on Monday this anxiety of being there but not there yet is killing me. And I have few girls ill be dating next week and the insecurity of walking like a handicap is hunting me haha. All I can do is just do it, im sure these feelings will go away. The funny thing is that I didn't feel like this two months ago. Because I wasn't comparing my self to anything I was only living in the present moment. I need to get back to that mind set.
Yeah, I can feel you bro. I also feel the same way before when I try to mole myself into the image that women wants... tall, handsome, rich and anything and everything. I never live up to their expectation.
However, nowadays I really falter in the dating department. You have gone farther than I have. If anyone ask me if my chance of scoring more women after LL, my answer would be no. It is much worst now. I met 6 women last month. I filter down to just 2 hottest ones. Now yesterday, I cut off the last beauty queen because I find that she was a bit annoying.
I find that my left-hand gave me more intimate experience than any wowan I ever had, no pressure to perform and I can go at my own pace (not the "faster faster BS").... and I hadn't had sex for a year. At 5'8, we are already very close to average and if we want, 2 layers of insole in the bottom of our shoes would be sufficient and natural... and we can wear shorts during the summer. Life is not about women. It's about you.
Being average or close to average is ideal. I find that tall people who exceed their height spectrum (over 5'8 for women and 6'1 for men), find that their height becomes more of a hindrance. My orthodontic who is 6'4 always have to droop downward. My ex manager who was 5'11 always wish she was smaller. If you go to the gym, you'll see that people who are in shape and are proportional (close to average) are ideal, for both men and women.
To overcome your insecurity, I just go to the gym and make myself into a godly figure (try to)... ripped arms and 6 packs. Your muscle body armor will shield you from all the insecurity. And also work on your skincare routine. I usually exfoliate, cleanse and nourish my skin with head to toe every day. If you have an symmetrical face, close to average height, clear skin, and body of muscle armor, then you will be impenetrable.
thats also my point, that since most people we meet or end up dating are from the same socioeconomic background as ourselves, its likely that person will at least be relatively similar in terms of intelligence when it comes to normal daily subjects. This is why i dont think intelligence is much of a factor for most average relationships, at least not at the same level as the other values we mentioned. 
I even look for pornography with girls that look just like her haha lol good news is I have been in this situation before and I know this feeling will go away))))