Quote from: BelowTheMean on March 26, 2021, 09:18:59 PMNo, I don't see your point. Again, you're thinking way too much into this. Tons of people on here (and tons of people outside the forum) have done this surgery without telling a soul. Has anyone come back here years later to complain that they got outed? I haven't seen a single case.
It's not difficult at all to hide this surgery. If you think it is, then I would imagine that you are not a very good at thinking outside the box. What you consider as "obvious" clearly isn't. Why would I need to bring my wife to the doctor with me? I'd just schedule it for when she was busy.
Also, why would I even worry about the consequences of something so unlikely to happen? I don't waste my time worrying about what would happen afterwards if a plane engine fell on my house. If it happens I'll deal with the fallout at that time. Besides, what's the worst thing that could happen anyway? I really can't think of anything that bad.
I dont expect forum members to come back years after their surgery to explain that they got caught. Most people are very uncomfortable talking about these things.. . heck most people dont even write about recovery after many years
plenty of people dont keep this 100% secret. so you cant expect anything from them. and plenty are already married when they do it (bcoz you need $$$ for this and people reach that in their 30s and 40s)
ok if you think the consequences will NOT be bad then no need to worry. I just felt like since your and body builder's dating was extremely superficial to begin with, your new height is what your wife thinks of you. Its not like you met her in a health camp immunising poor children in haiti and you liked each other because your purpose in life overlaps and like how your both benevolent and kind hearted. In that case, the height thing would be less important..
anyway my man, everybodys different, and many people dont see marriage as some final spiritual thing. divorces are common here (not related the leg length surgery but even otherwise). maybe there are plenty of ladies out there who wouldnt give a fk about this surgery many years after marriage when the physical attraction has melted off..
people cheat on eachother and thats 100x worse than hiding this.
so ya man, thanks for the chat, just my honest thoughts man to man.