Quote from: DoingItForMe on March 04, 2016, 09:45:44 PMWhen you truly love someone, physical attributes stop being important. Otherwise, when the wife becomes old, does that mean every husband stops loving their wife? The way I view love is like the way I view my love for my puppy. He's all cute and playful when I first met him. But now he's grow old and slow. But I still love him. I don't care how he looks. I just like spending time with him.
But physical attributes play a part at the beginning. 200lbs woman comes up to you in a club, you run away. Same woman two years later after losing the weight comes up to you, you get chatting. We're all shallow bastards at heart.
Quote from: hyong on March 04, 2016, 10:25:59 PMDo you feel that women and men love differently?
I came across sites like reddit,red pill , mgtow talking about a women's hypergamy instinct.
Lol, Reddit red pill, and Reddit in general, from my experience, is absolutely toxic. Whilst there maybe some element of truth, have a look around you in the real world, it just doesn't hold up.
My ex for example that I met at university, she is from a wealthy family, £1million house, sister is Cambridge and Harvard educated - became an international lawyer, my ex was seeing a footballer (soccer) when she moved to university, and then little old distinctly average (and short!) me ended up dating her for 4 years before distance became a real problem. According to the hypergamy model, that just doesn't happen. Yet it did.
Again, there was someone I knew at university , must have been 168cm tops, was a hairs width taller than me, yet he's probably the biggest 'playa' (massive bellend) I've ever met. Had numerous girls on the go all the time, looks wise he was nothing special, looked a bit like an uncoked up Pete Doherty. Again, according to whatever I've read on Reddit, that doesn't happen because short = #foreveralone.
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Quote from: DoingItForMe on March 04, 2016, 09:41:41 PMShort millionaire for sure.
1) People like successful guys even if they're short. I'd name a few famous short celebrities who are well respected, but you probably already know them. Once you become rich enough, things like age, looks and height stop mattering. Look at Hugh Heffner. The guy marries women who are more than half his age.
2) It sucks to work with alarm clocks and deadlines. What I love most about my life is that I get to do whatever I want, whenever I want. There's no part of my day where I'm doing something I don't want to do. I guess if you love your 9-5 job and really want to be there all the time, then it wouldn't matter. But for me, I enjoy being able to go on vacations whenever I feel like it. If I get bored of doing my work, I can just close the laptop and then do something else. Even though I know I'll lose money by not doing the work earlier, I don't care.
3) Being able to help strangers and friends and family is a great feeling. Every once in a while, people in my life are really sad because of some money-related issue. For example, one of my friends got a traffic ticket and was really upset about it. I paid for it, and then he was really happy again. Now imagine doing this for thousands of people.
Dream life 
Alright, thanks.
Quote from: Nightwish on March 04, 2016, 11:36:34 PMBut physical attributes play a part at the beginning. 200lbs woman comes up to you in a club, you run away. Same woman two years later after losing the weight comes up to you, you get chatting. We're all shallow bastards at heart.
Again, according to whatever I've read on Reddit, that doesn't happen because short = #foreveralone.
Men are more superficial than women. Some of the prettiest girls I know from high school and college are now married to pretty ugly dudes. The thing is that girls become less superficial as they age. Right around their mid-20s, they start caring more about a guy's personality rather than on looks.
Don't believe me? Look at almost any survey on women. And you will find the height is very low on requirements. Here's one: http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/top-20-traits-she-wants Only 13% of women think that height is required for a guy to be "hot".
When I was younger, I also thought that being tall and muscular was what was important. After all, all the tall and muscular jocks were the ones who were dating the pretty girls. BUT, after around college, I noticed that really pretty girls stop dating the jock-type. For example, this home-coming queen I know stop dating this 6' tall, handsome muscular dude. And now she's dating some 5'7" chubby dude with average looks. I couldn't believe my eyes. But now I know better. Personality > Looks to women. Having money helps, too. My height never really stopped me from getting really great girlfriends. Don't give up hope if you're short. Just be a better person.
yes. women dont care about height. i notice a lot of you do it for looks. i am just doing it for job requirement. even here in china, you will see a lot of girls taller than guys.
Quote from: chineseguy on March 08, 2016, 04:40:05 AMyes. women dont care about height. i notice a lot of you do it for looks. i am just doing it for job requirement. even here in china, you will see a lot of girls taller than guys.
Mind if i ask, what kind of job ?
military ? presidential guard? 
commando?
Quote from: DoingItForMe on March 08, 2016, 04:16:22 AM
When I was younger, I also thought that being tall and muscular was what was important. After all, all the tall and muscular jocks were the ones who were dating the pretty girls. BUT, after around college, I noticed that really pretty girls stop dating the jock-type. For example, this home-coming queen I know stop dating this 6' tall, handsome muscular dude. And now she's dating some 5'7" chubby dude with average looks. I couldn't believe my eyes. But now I know better. Personality > Looks to women. Having money helps, too. My height never really stopped me from getting really great girlfriends. Don't give up hope if you're short. Just be a better person.
do you really think so? why is the general belief on the internet that women care deeply about height?
Because the majority of the repondents online is constituted of teens / young women 12 - 22/3. As soon as girls finish college and start working..they realize that they need a man who can take care of them, who can send their kids to private schools, pay for nice vacations/restaurants etc. If that is combined with perfect looks/height, even better. But the later is not priority.
Quote from: aspirant185 on March 10, 2016, 03:10:54 PMAs soon as girls finish college and start working..they realize that they need a man who can take care of them, who can send their kids to private schools, pay for nice vacations/restaurants etc.
What are you 15 years old?
Many women can take care of themselves and don't need you to speak in their place. When you're done sticking your dong in your butt and want to grow up, you can begin treating women like they're equal and maybe youll get laid more and wont need this surgery.
Quote from: LLuserDeluxe on March 10, 2016, 05:29:07 PMWhat are you 15 years old?
Many women can take care of themselves and don't need you to speak in their place. When you're done sticking your dong in your butt and want to grow up, you can begin treating women like they're equal and maybe youll get laid more and wont need this surgery.
Ouch
Quote from: LLuserDeluxe on March 10, 2016, 05:29:07 PMWhat are you 15 years old?
Many women can take care of themselves and don't need you to speak in their place. When you're done sticking your dong in your butt and want to grow up, you can begin treating women like they're equal and maybe youll get laid more and wont need this surgery.
Stupid loser, how exactly I am not treating woman equally ? Every woman wants a successful man, arguably she expects him to be more successful than her. And this has nothing to do with the fact that she needs him to support her, but with the fact that sucessful people are better people to be around, there are simply more interesting things to do with them and more interesting things to discuss. And yes, some women want successful men so that they spoil them and they don't have to work. If you deny that you have no idea about life 
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