Got rejected today because of height

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yeah... there's this girl I've been talking to and I really like her. I finally made my move but I was politely declined claiming her boyfriend should be tall.. she's 5'7 and I'm 5'9 but with her footwear, we see eye to eye. Not to mention she alleges I'm shorter than her even though I insist she is not and my ID proves such. I thought she really liked me but I was placed in the friendzone without even realising so. fk these bitches.
I don't want to be bitter and remain confident with my head held high but this is really demoralising.

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sad story, but something tells me you're not 5'9.
you have to be honest about your height man, or you will live in denial phase for ever

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I am 5'7 and I have never been rejected because of height (atleast never had a girl say it to me to the face)

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what a rookie......your mistake was to make your move without a rope and chloroform...................just kidding, do not try this at home hahaha

being serious, do not let this get you down , if you are really 5'9 and her or other women find it inappropriate there's nothing to do, except CLL, but you can be 6 footer and still be rejected, so as you said fk these bitches and move on

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Quote from: TIBIKE200 on October 28, 2018, 06:26:17 PMI am 5'7 and I have never been rejected because of height (atleast never had a girl say it to me to the face)

I am also  5' 7.3''   and also have never been told in my face, when claim to be 5' 7 people estimate that I have more height,
I think almost everyone lies about his height, and this has distorted reality

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i think its the kind of women you are going for.  If you go for looks..and go for someone who is into looks then you are going to get rejected. But if you for someone who values whats on the inside more than the outside..than thats a better strategy

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It may have been because of your height or more likely it is probably because you didn't click from her perspective.  There are some girls who prefer taller guys - oddly (from my observation) these tend to be girls who are in the 5-0' to 5'2 region.  Interestingly most of my tall friends like girls about that height.  Maybe there is a co-evolutionary match.    I think this is because shorter girls feel more vulnerable and hence feel safer with a guy that can protect them.  Likewise taller guys enjoy the effortless attention from these girls and therefore it is not surprising that they are attracted to them.  In my experience taller girls were actually more open to a shorter guy.  However, I did insist on flats - this was to cover my insecurity.  I think there is something comical about a guy walking hand in hand with girl that is quite a bit taller.

Fk these bitches is probably the wrong attitude.  She rejected you because she was not attracted to you - this is not unreasonable.  A more interesting question is how did you not notice that you were in the friend zone?  Can you tell if a girl is attracted to you?  Did you have to ask her why she doesn't want to have a relationship with you or did she tell you anyway?  Sorry but I am imagining you showing her your ID to prove that you are actually taller and therefore invalidating her rejection - quite comical if it did happen.  I suggest you try to be friends with as many girls as you can.  This might help you answer these questions and make you more attractive.  Just a friendly suggestion.

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If it makes you feel better - the most successful womaniser I know asks about 5 to 10 girls out per day - he doesn't use online dating apps.  He told me he gets rejected about 90% of the time - but that still means about 3 dates per week minimum.  He claims its a numbers game and I have no reason to doubt him.  I have seen him in with some amazing girls and he isn't particularly tall, well built or gifted in looks.  He has become very comfortable around girls though - through experience.

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Quote from: wants2growtaller on October 28, 2018, 07:58:26 PMi think its the kind of women you are going for.  If you go for looks..and go for someone who is into looks then you are going to get rejected. But if you for someone who values whats on the inside more than the outside..than thats a better strategy

the vast majority of people go after the appearance to say otherwise is to be hypocrite or very innocent

If you find that rare unicorn of a woman, let us know

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Quote from: TIBIKE200 on October 28, 2018, 06:26:17 PMI am 5'7 and I have never been rejected because of height (atleast never had a girl say it to me to the face)

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