Here to pour my anguish out.
I've been a member of here and old forum for many years and have wished throughout that I could get LL. I've known that I need it since age 20ish, though I always suppress the thought. It periodically hits me that no, I actually cant live my ambitions without LL, and here's the problem:
Before age 18 I had a lot of female attention and I was a good kid. Now in my upper mid twenties at 165cm I get rejected left and right, nothing to do with my approach, personality, charm, but everything to do with my stature. I've sensed it a lot in the past few years, that people respect me much less than a donkey with a bit more height. It doesn't matter how smart you are or whatever traits you devise to seem more attractive, stature always gets in the way. My ex asked me a few times seriously about my height and she was less than 160cm. Girls are always somehow slightly interested in me for my character/confidence/charm, but when it comes to it I get rejected and avoided because the taller guy looks more socially acceptable to date and walk with. Something that really bothers me is that when I'm sat down and chat to a girl I seem very attractive as my upper body is ok proportioned, but when I get up it disappoints them, and it's happened to me many times. All the rejections are grinding at me, and I don't deserve this.
The problem with short stature is that you can't fking fix it unless you have the resources and for me it's been a problem. I spent my income on my ex to make sure she feels secure with a man that has to be embarrassed of his height. With the way it's going I wont be able to get LL for at least another 5-7 years, I don't think I can wait that much longer, and I honestly don't want to live this life where I have to regret everyday that if I had 5 extra cms on my legs I wouldn't have to get rejected and avoided so much.
This is a genuine request, help me and I'll reciprocate 10 years down the road.
Quote from: Tengo on August 01, 2018, 01:35:07 AMHere to pour my anguish out.
I've been a member of here and old forum for many years and have wished throughout that I could get LL. I've known that I need it since age 20ish, though I always suppress the thought. It periodically hits me that no, I actually cant live my ambitions without LL, and here's the problem:
Before age 18 I had a lot of female attention and I was a good kid. Now in my upper mid twenties at 165cm I get rejected left and right, nothing to do with my approach, personality, charm, but everything to do with my stature. I've sensed it a lot in the past few years, that people respect me much less than a donkey with a bit more height. It doesn't matter how smart you are or whatever traits you devise to seem more attractive, stature always gets in the way. My ex asked me a few times seriously about my height and she was less than 160cm. Girls are always somehow slightly interested in me for my character/confidence/charm, but when it comes to it I get rejected and avoided because the taller guy looks more socially acceptable to date and walk with. Something that really bothers me is that when I'm sat down and chat to a girl I seem very attractive as my upper body is ok proportioned, but when I get up it disappoints them, and it's happened to me many times. All the rejections are grinding at me, and I don't deserve this.
The problem with short stature is that you can't fking fix it unless you have the resources and for me it's been a problem. I spent my income on my ex to make sure she feels secure with a man that has to be embarrassed of his height. With the way it's going I wont be able to get LL for at least another 5-7 years, I don't think I can wait that much longer, and I honestly don't want to live this life where I have to regret everyday that if I had 5 extra cms on my legs I wouldn't have to get rejected and avoided so much.
This is a genuine request, help me and I'll reciprocate 10 years down the road.
I spent a lot of my money on a beauty but as soon as money dried up she ditched me for a taller guy. Lesson for you - do not spend on women, save get LL women will come to you without spending a lot
You're asking for money? Not that I think it's a good idea, but that's what banks are for if you're really desperate. Get a loan. And if that's no good and can't afford to pay a bank back how would you pay anyone here back?
It's not easy to avoid it especially as you get older.
Dude I don't know. I'm having a ty life and I've gave it enough patience.
How old are you if you don’t mind me asking
28
Don’t you have any credit?
Anyone with a brain can get $20.000 today. Anyone. Even people in third world.
Quote from: Sweden on August 01, 2018, 05:04:36 AMAnyone with a brain can get $20.000 today. Anyone. Even people in third world.
Here in the third world, if you earn $400/month, it'd be considered pretty good.
Also, you don't expect everyone to go to Sarin, do you? 😆
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