Quote from: lessthanavg8300 on January 29, 2023, 07:46:16 PMMy absolute cutoff is 5'6. But I prefer 5'7 and over. My sons will NOT be doing this lengthening sh!t
I guess I am doing a dissevice being with a 5'2 girl then
Quote from: informationispower on January 29, 2023, 08:12:44 PMWhen and where are you doing your surgery?
I can see why many people lurk and dont make diaries, too much negativity for people to have a peace of mind recovering during the surgery. Well Donghoon is not replying, probably have to find other places. I'm still trying to contact him but to no avail.
Quote from: informationispower on January 29, 2023, 08:13:39 PMI guess I am doing a dissevice being with a 5'2 girl then
I mean this is going to sound f*cked up and I apologize for that. But if you have a son its basically over for that guy. Why would that be appealing? I would never want to selfishly have a kid for my own happiness just so he can suffer his whole life.
Now if you dont want kids then who tf cares.
Really not trying to sound like an ahole but thats how I view it for myself. Id rather not have kids than have kids with a short girl and potentially have a son that really struggles and is unhappy.
Quote from: lessthanavg8300 on January 29, 2023, 08:54:26 PMI mean this is going to sound f*cked up and I apologize for that. But if you have a son its basically over for that guy. Why would that be appealing? I would never want to selfishly have a kid for my own happiness just so he can suffer his whole life.
Now if you dont want kids then who tf cares.
Really not trying to sound like an ahole but thats how I view it for myself. Id rather not have kids than have kids with a short girl and potentially have a son that really struggles and is unhappy.
I get where it comes from. But if I will have a son, I will give him GH. But there is also the possibility of having girls.
Quote from: informationispower on January 29, 2023, 09:08:23 PMI get where it comes from. But if I will have a son, I will give him GH. But there is also the possibility of having girls.
I dont know much about giving GH but if that works then thats great.
Quote from: LengtheningDream on January 29, 2023, 07:54:57 PMThats odd coming from someone posting an empty diary months before surgery to seek validation. Quad lengthening at your height shows deep seated insecurity than just height dysphoria. Quad lengthening is way more crippling than bilateral. Please, take a look at yourself before judging others. Laughable that you put your quad end goal before even starting your first lengthening.
Firstly, I set up my diary 2 weeks in advance, not months.
Secondly, I know my insecurity is my height but there's nothing more than that. I'm not crying about a girl calling me short. Stop acting like an incel. You got called short and ran to this forum for validation from other incels. I'm sorry we're not the same, there's two types of people on this forum. The ones who live a normal life despite their height like myself and then people like you who have fallen into a deep hole.
Lastly, of course I put my quad goal. Whether it takes 6 months or 6 years, i'll get it done. I didn't know there's a time frame for how far along I can set my goal.
Quote from: informationispower on January 29, 2023, 07:00:00 PMWhile a man's height is considered an important physical attribute everywhere across the globe, as someone who lives in Europe I must admit that it is nowhere as near as bad as in the USA. And I live in one of the most superficial countries in Europe
USA, China, and Korea. Three most discrimantory countries all over the world .
USA is notorious for its racist discriminations but it is also discriminatory in other regards including height like u said and IQ and so on. There are many IQ tests there to spot giftedness and place the gifted by this way. They produce 99% of IQ tests you can know of, including online, clinic, admission, achievement, ability, army tests etc.
China is not discriminatory to minority but also to races, which as you can see is not exclusive to USA only. And they are discriminatory to height face IQ money etc. I'd say they are less racism but the most discriminatory country undoubtedly. I have seen many Chineses in my country which are of a large sample size like hundreds and they appear to me to be obsessed with competing with others, be sophiscated at 'taking advanges of others' and very uncourteous. I went to concerts for many times and every time they commented over the choirs arbitrarily or else so aloud that I could hear them far away. I am not anti-xeno or else but they gimme bad impressions all the time.
Well as for Korea, they are very discriminatory to height and face.
Europe as I heard generally is not discriminatory but I am not sure which country you are living in as an exception.
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 09:50:22 PMI'm sorry we're not the same, there's two types of people on this forum. The ones who live a normal life despite their height like myself and then people like you who have fallen into a deep hole.
Why does it matter if it was a girl that called him short? Irrespective if a boy called him short it would be the same thing, no need for sexism.
Also your quote literally makes 0 sense. “Live a normal life”? If your life was so normal you wouldn’t be on this forum considering doing this procedure.
It’s bad enough we get mentally scaring words from people taller than us, but why must we short individuals give ourselves these mental scars also?
Quote from: Kanye Western on January 29, 2023, 10:15:07 PMWhy does it matter if it was a girl that called him short? Irrespective if a boy called him short it would be the same thing, no need for sxxism.
Also your quote literally makes 0 sense. “Live a normal life”? If your life was so normal you wouldn’t be on this forum considering doing this procedure.
It’s bad enough we get mentally scaring words from people taller than us, but why must we short individuals give ourselves these mental scars also?
Sexism??? I'm not sure where you've got that from.
Live a normal life means be social, be confident with other things. Everyone has a few insecurities, everyone on here is insecure about their height. I am only insecure about this 1 thing hence why I can live a normal life in all other ways. I have a job, I have a gf, i'm not chronically online. If someone said something to me i'd have my friends to message. I simply said it's a bit concerning that OP decided to come on here as the 1st thing.
LL will better my life, it's not going to change it. That's what an insecurity is. If your height has crippled your life mentally, socially and physically then that's more of a disorder.
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 10:23:49 PM
Live a normal life means be social, be confident with other things. Everyone has a few insecurities, everyone on here is insecure about their height. I am only insecure about this 1 thing hence why I can live a normal life in all other ways. I have a job, I have a gf, i'm not chronically online. If someone said something to me i'd have my friends to message. I simply said it's a bit concerning that OP decided to come on here as the 1st thing.
LL will better my life, it's not going to change it. That's what an insecurity is. If your height has crippled your life mentally, socially and physically then that's more of a disorder.
How do you know he's not currently living a normal life, with a good job, gf? This forum is meant to be a "safe space", where we all have same common grounds - our issues with being short.
There was no need to attack the guy like that.
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