Quote from: Kanye Western on January 29, 2023, 10:15:07 PMWhy does it matter if it was a girl that called him short? Irrespective if a boy called him short it would be the same thing, no need for sxxism.
Also your quote literally makes 0 sense. “Live a normal life”? If your life was so normal you wouldn’t be on this forum considering doing this procedure.
It’s bad enough we get mentally scaring words from people taller than us, but why must we short individuals give ourselves these mental scars also?
His so-called 'normal life' stands for a 'psychiatrically normal life', in contrast to 'neurotically normal life'.
His motivation of doing LL derives from neurosis and he wanted to indicate he did not go psychotic mode like vengeful incel murders or something like that yet, and he suggested it was okay for every short pal to have neurosis but not to resort to inceldom or at least hypersensitivity to what others say, because of their angsts in real life. Neurosis is different from psychosis.
I don't experience any humiliations at all. What he said is also what I want to say as another very short pal. Clearly there are more and more candidates for therapy coming up on this forum by my observation, not kidding.(well I am not saying OP necessarily has gone psychotic mode but this post can indicate something bad about him for sure more or less, like hypersensivity)
If you make sure you are already not only just neurotic and you are psychotic now, LL will not help you much. You will still be unhappy after LL, though your psychosis will be reduced for sure, but your mindset is still psychiatrically abnormal.
Well let's not keep digressing. For Op's unhappy experience I want to say it's normal in all fairness and actually short girls are more obsessed with height than normal and tall girls. But of course you can't be shorter than tall girls too much otherwise everything will be hard on the eyes. Personally I will instead suggest to seek normal girls because it is optimal.
Quote from: informationispower on January 29, 2023, 09:08:23 PMI get where it comes from. But if I will have a son, I will give him GH. But there is also the possibility of having girls.
GH is very expensive, to the degree it will cost you as much as a tibial/femural lengthening in a three-world country, and it also has limited effect, like 12cm in the best case of the best case(on average 6-7cm but the ages since which the children inject HGH vary and I forget the average age. So just take my words with a grain of salt), as well as potiential horrible side-effects like Diabetes. I also heard some guys died of using GH via this forum, maybe just because of Diabetes or other fatal diseases it caused. And Acromegaly is another big potiential issue if you don't dose your children properly.
Quote from: Quintet on January 29, 2023, 10:46:07 PMHis so-called 'normal life' stands for a 'psychiatrically normal life', in contrast to 'neurotically normal life'.
His motivation of doing LL derives from neurosis and he wanted to indicate he did not go psychotic mode like vengeful incel murders or something like that yet, and he suggested it was okay for every short pal to have neurosis but not to resort to inceldom or at least hypersensitivity to what others say, because of their angsts in real life. Neurosis is different from psychosis.
I don't experience any humiliations at all. What he said is also what I want to say as another very short pal. Clearly there are more and more candidates for therapy coming up on this forum by my observation, not kidding.(well I am not saying OP necessarily has gone psychotic mode but this post can indicate something bad about him for sure more or less, like hypersensivity)
If you make sure you are already not only just neurotic and you are psychotic now, LL will not help you much. You will still be unhappy after LL, though your psychosis will be reduced for sure, but your mindset is still psychiatrically abnormal.
Well let's not keep digressing. For Op's unhappy experience I want to say it's normal in all fairness and actually short girls are more obsessed with height than normal and tall girls. But of course you can't be shorter than tall girls too much otherwise everything will be hard on the eyes. Personally I will instead suggest to seek normal girls because it is optimal.
Exactly what I was trying to say. Someone understands.
The people on this forum should seek therapy before seeking LL.
LL is only going to enhance you. It's not going to completely change your sad little life.
Quote from: bocklecrt3 on January 29, 2023, 06:26:27 PMthe issue is that short women dont think there is something wrong with them as females live in a different reality, for example this 3'8" 20 yo female disregarded this 5 foot tall dude 
because there is always a degenerate chad lookin to pedomaxx around every corner ready to give these sub 5ft tall women a chance:
yes thats the new boyfriend
point of the story is not to listen to women about ANYTHING and just follow your plan and do your thing
LMAO at the Chad with the midget girl!!! Young women can't lose its unbelievable.
Quote from: GrowTow on January 30, 2023, 12:38:18 AMExactly what I was trying to say. Someone understands.
The people on this forum should seek therapy before seeking LL.
LL is only going to enhance you. It's not going to completely change your sad little life.
I think therapy has limited benefits, but I’m also in the mindset of “be happy at your current height, then use LL to improve your life.” It should come from a place of strength, not weakness.
Quote from: Kanye Western on January 29, 2023, 10:33:54 PMHow do you know he's not currently living a normal life, with a good job, gf? This forum is meant to be a "safe space", where we all have same common grounds - our issues with being short.
There was no need to attack the guy like that.
Thank you. I am actually dating someone casually at the moment but unfortunately I cant seem to make it serious due to my fixation with height. And GrowTow is full of , self projectioning his own inc*ldom into others. Something is clearly not right in his head if he wants to do LL twice, so i highly doubt his issues are all height related.
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 09:50:22 PM
Lastly, of course I put my quad goal. Whether it takes 6 months or 6 years, i'll get it done. I didn't know there's a time frame for how far along I can set my goal.
Your a clown, ur post history indicates in 2018 u are gonna get it done next year and now its 2023 and you still dont know? Are you alright mate? No one is gonna care if you Quad LL besides yourself. It was a rant on how short guys face prejudice. I dont know how you are self-projecting your inc*ldom onto others. Nothing i said indicated misogyny. You need to grow up(literally and figuratively). You will still be sad after your quad surgery. Boo hoo not 6 ft. Im only doing tis to get to average height. Please go and cry more
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 10:23:49 PMsxxism??? I'm not sure where you've got that from.
Live a normal life means be social, be confident with other things. Everyone has a few insecurities, everyone on here is insecure about their height. I am only insecure about this 1 thing hence why I can live a normal life in all other ways. I have a job, I have a gf, i'm not chronically online. If someone said something to me i'd have my friends to message. I simply said it's a bit concerning that OP decided to come on here as the 1st thing.
Your funny, if your life is that satisfying you wouldnt even need to come here everyday to seek validation. Why not tell everyone you know about it? Clearly you know everyone will gaslight you and tell you height is in your head. Yeah please go and cry to your friends about how ur height affects your daily life to the point you want to break your legs twice lmao. I wouldnt let anyone but my closest friends know and even then i dont rant to them constantly, it gets annoying. Have some empathy before commenting on my thread, i didnt come here to start an argument and the first thing you commented on the thread was to insult me. Piss off
Quote from: tempthrowaway on January 30, 2023, 03:33:44 AMI think therapy has limited benefits, but I’m also in the mindset of “be happy at your current height, then use LL to improve your life.” It should come from a place of strength, not weakness.
Therapy will not even have benefits instead just be a waste of money but it still has values.
Sometimes it is true that if the other side is not yourself they can't understand you well but sometimes you need to reevaluate everything in a non-personal perspective. Therapy is valid in the latter case.
And medication can enhance your mindset through your biochemistry of your brain as known to all.
It also depends on how good your therapist is, how dedicated into the improvement you are yourself, etc.
Quote from: LengtheningDream on January 30, 2023, 03:43:16 AMThank you. I am actually dating someone casually at the moment but unfortunately I cant seem to make it serious due to my fixation with height. And GrowTow is full of , self projectioning his own inc*ldom into others. Something is clearly not right in his head if he wants to do LL twice, so i highly doubt his issues are all height related.Your a clown, ur post history indicates in 2018 u are gonna get it done next year and now its 2023 and you still dont know? Are you alright mate? No one is gonna care if you Quad LL besides yourself. It was a rant on how short guys face prejudice. I dont know how you are self-projecting your inc*ldom onto others. Nothing i said indicated misogyny. You need to grow up(literally and figuratively). You will still be sad after your quad surgery. Boo hoo not 6 ft. Im only doing tis to get to average height. Please go and cry more
Your funny, if your life is that satisfying you wouldnt even need to come here everyday to seek validation. Why not tell everyone you know about it? Clearly you know everyone will gaslight you and tell you height is in your head. Yeah please go and cry to your friends about how ur height affects your daily life to the point you want to break your legs twice lmao. I wouldnt let anyone but my closest friends know and even then i dont rant to them constantly, it gets annoying. Have some empathy before commenting on my thread, i didnt come here to start an argument and the first thing you commented on the thread was to insult me. Piss off
If you have fixation with your height, don't date. It is not a mandate but a suggestion so take it or leave it. Insecurity is always a terminator to a relationship in all fairness. The partner will never accept his/her partner if she/he is suffering from inferior complexities because it will be debilitating to keep vigilant about whether his/her behaviours and words will hurt your feelings, and that can also indicate you don't love the partner enough, otherwise you will not feel inferior.
Imagine this scenario to help you understand better:
F:'Hey honey, why do you look upset all the day?'
M:'*Sigh. A short girl who is only 4'8 herself called me short today'
You know the ending right?
Clearly if you check his history carefully you will find out he is really too busy with his own life(he does not post here frequently and he had a long time not to post at all). And he said all what he said totally out of kindness. I don't get why you got pissed off.
Quote from: Quintet on January 30, 2023, 05:05:57 AMIf you have fixation with your height, don't date. It is not a mandate but a suggestion so take it or leave it. Insecurity is always a terminator to a relationship in all fairness. The partner will never accept his/her partner if she/he is suffering from inferior complexities because it will be debilitating to keep vigilant about whether his/her behaviours and words will hurt your feelings, and that can also indicate you don't love the partner enough, otherwise you will not feel inferior.
This is spot on! I must add also, being insecure around not only relationships but also friends and colleagues has same implication also (for me anyways)
You’re very good with words Quintet, you get this whole stigma.
Quote from: LengtheningDream on January 30, 2023, 03:43:16 AMThank you. I am actually dating someone casually at the moment but unfortunately I cant seem to make it serious due to my fixation with height. And GrowTow is full of , self projectioning his own inc*ldom into others. Something is clearly not right in his head if he wants to do LL twice, so i highly doubt his issues are all height related.Your a clown, ur post history indicates in 2018 u are gonna get it done next year and now its 2023 and you still dont know? Are you alright mate? No one is gonna care if you Quad LL besides yourself. It was a rant on how short guys face prejudice. I dont know how you are self-projecting your inc*ldom onto others. Nothing i said indicated misogyny. You need to grow up(literally and figuratively). You will still be sad after your quad surgery. Boo hoo not 6 ft. Im only doing tis to get to average height. Please go and cry more
Your funny, if your life is that satisfying you wouldnt even need to come here everyday to seek validation. Why not tell everyone you know about it? Clearly you know everyone will gaslight you and tell you height is in your head. Yeah please go and cry to your friends about how ur height affects your daily life to the point you want to break your legs twice lmao. I wouldnt let anyone but my closest friends know and even then i dont rant to them constantly, it gets annoying. Have some empathy before commenting on my thread, i didnt come here to start an argument and the first thing you commented on the thread was to insult me. Piss off
So there must be something wrong with me to want 2 surgeries? It's normal. I'm from the UK. Average height is 178cm. With 2 operations I will be average height. I'm not aiming for the stars.
And yes, I was ready to have the surgery in 2018 but then changed my mind as I wasn't confident with any of my option. Many others also have been been on here for man years. I am doing this surgery now as I am finally ready. I am still in my early early 20s so it's perfect. Nor did I say that anyone will care if I do quads. You're making up arguments in your own brain.
I'm not sure if you've read someone else's message and thought it was me or just misunderstood me because I haven't said anything about you being misogynist and as you've mentioned yourself, you're doing your surgery to be average height, so am I. Idc about being 6ft, not sure where you got that from either.
I didn't come here to seek any validation either, none of my posts can be interpreted in any way to be seeking validation. I'm just confused as to why you've said half the things you have as I've not said anything about them. Leave it here.
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