As you all can see from the topic title, I had decided to do surgery with
Dr Mangal Parihar at
Mangal Anand Center for Limb Lengthening & Reconstruction. It wasn't easy choosing a surgeon as I met more than a couple good ones, and my ultimate decision came after a full weekend of thinking it over. Despite choosing Dr Parihar, I would have felt safe with a couple of the other surgeons as well, so for those considering India I think it would be a good idea to meet them too and not just use my patient experience as your basis for choosing a surgeon. You might actually find one of the other ones better for you in terms of personality, CLL methods they offer, location, budget, etc. However, I do think I made the best choice for me and have high hopes for a positive outcome in all this.
Initially I was planning to do plate fixation and did not like the idea of spending so many months wearing frames. But after talking it over with Dr Parihar and Dr Divya, I changed my mind and decided to go with exfix only. If someone decides to go with Dr Shah or Dr Dhawan, perhaps then we'll have a patient experience regarding plate fixation. After being in frames for a bit now, I think I can tolerate wearing these for the time required.
Now on to what I guess would be the official start of my patient experience.
Visa Extension TroublesA very annoying part of my CLL quest in India was being able to extend my visa. When I originally applied for a medical visa, Rockland Hospital in New Delhi had sponsored it. I was told that because tourist visas cannot be extended or changed, it would be far less of a hassle to just come on a medical visa and extend that if necessary. I came to India under the impression that although Rockland was on my visa, I wouldn’t be beholden to them if I decided that I would like treatment from a different doctor. Of course, if I had come to India right after I received it back in the mail, then I wouldn’t have needed an extension as they’re typically granted for just a day under 6 months. Unfortunately, the date of issuance was January 27 and I was unable to get free from work until mid June. This meant that as of my arrival in India, I only had a month and a half left.
When I finally decided on having treatment with Dr Parihar, he had a doctor downstairs submit my documents to Airtel so I could get a sim card and had another person escort me the following day to the FRRO to get my visa extended. The trip there was about 20 minutes by taxi and the one who escorted me was unable to go with me through the checkpoint (which was guarded by a soldier wielding an assault rifle). I climbed to the third floor, noticing that Pakistani nationals had their own special section to register on the second floor, and waited in line a good while before I reached the front desk. I informed the woman that I wanted to extend my medical visa and was told to go to a room on the side to make copies of my documents. After making copies, the lady took them and disappeared for a bit before coming out with a document which said I did not need to register because my visa was issued for a duration of less than 6 months. I looked at her bewildered and told her that the reason I came to the FRRO was to extend my Visa by three months (I even had a letter from Dr Parihar explaining everything). She gave me my passport and simply told me that I was endorsed by Rockland Hospital in Delhi so they could not extend my stay in Mumbai. All I could do was go back to Delhi and see the FRRO with an extension request from Rockland Hospital.
Now obviously if I was not planning to get treated by Rockland Hospital, there would be no reason for them to go through the trouble to register me. I was screwed and it looked like the only thing I could do was return to the States and wait for my visa to expire before applying once again with a letter from Dr Parihar to the Indian Embassy. I went back to Dr Parihar’s office and explained the situation. He went to the immigration bureau website and pulled up an e-mail address that he wrote to, asking if officers have some discretion in situations such as mine because he already accepted me as a patient and it would just be needless expense, time, and trouble for a genuine case to go back to the US just to apply all over again. He explained that he was an honorary surgeon at the Nagpata Police Hospital, so the guys at FRRO should be familiar with him and not to worry about it.
When I got back to my hotel I wrote to Cox and Kings Global Services for advice on what to do and in the morning they just said I had to follow the FRRO’s rules. I was about to start browsing flights back home when I was forwarded a message sent to Dr Parihar from the e-mail he wrote to, which said to have me see the chief of police at the registration branch to re-examine my case. When I went back to the FRRO a second time and showed that e-mail along with the other necessary documents, the same lady at the front desk didn’t even have me see the chief of police, but instead took my blood reports from Mangal Anand Hospital and directed me to a room where I was to wait for an agent. After some questions about what exactly my medical problem was and where I was staying, I was given an extension until October 27, effectively giving me more than four months in India. I think that lady at the desk may have been spoken to or something, but it was good to not have to fly all the way back to the States before treatment.
Checking into Mangal Anand Center for Limb Lengthening & ReconstructionI was picked up at my hotel by a driver sent from Mangal Anand at around 9:30 pm and told to go to the first floor, where I would be taken to my room. I took room number 23, the first room on the first floor (which was actually the second floor but the first is called ground), and was approached by a nurse who had me sign a consent form and other paperwork agreeing to the surgery. She had me step on the scale and I saw that I had lost 9 lbs since arriving in India. No doubt I’d be losing even more weight in the coming months, both from lack of appetite and muscle atrophy. I unpacked some things from my suitcase and watched some Lord of the Rings: Two Towers on the tv, which had good cable access with a decent amount of English channels, one of which played movies all day. The room I was in had a large fan on the ceiling, an air conditioner, an extra bed, and its own restroom, so it was quite roomy.
Once my movie watching was over I entered the restroom and shaved my tibias, which took forever because I only had a single Gilette razor and no shaving cream. What worked the fastest was putting my foot in a bucket, filling it with water, and using the bucket water from the sink to continuously add lubricant for the razor. I tried to go to sleep afterwards but I was too anxious and slept maybe 20 minutes before being woken up at 8:30 and connected hands and feet with some tubes that acted like suction cups on my skin. One of the assistant surgeons came in afterward and told me to step out so he could take pictures of my legs from various angles. After that, Dr Divya came to stand next to me for a picture that I assume will be used as a “before and after” photo. I was then taken to Divya’s office to use his wifi so I could forward e-mail attachments from my banker to Dr Parihar, confirming that my payment had been wired. Divya told me then that the surgery would take around 6 hours and rather than be put under general anesthesia I would just be given an epidural that would make me numb from the waist down. I spoke to my parents a brief moment on Dr Parihar’s cell phone to inform them that I was about to enter surgery and then went back to my room to wait for the anesthesiologist to arrive.
Regarding PaymentSomething I should mention that’s very important is how you should make payment to your chosen surgeon. The easiest way is through a wire transfer, but most banks will require you to make the wire transfer in person because they need your signature on the transfer request witnessed by a banker. Most likely you won’t want to transfer any money to a doctor before you go to India and meet him yourself. If you are still ‘doctor shopping’, then you definitely wouldn’t be in a position to transfer money before you leave for India.
The best way to get around this is to set up a joint account with a person you really trust, probably one of your parents. That joint account should be accessible online along with your checking account and whatever other account you may have. Once you’re sure you want to initiate the wire transfer, just transfer online the payment from your checking or wherever that money is stored to that joint account you set up (the transfer will show immediately), then send the doctor’s bank details to the other person on your joint account. That person can then go to the bank in the States for you and transfer the money to your doctor on your behalf. This is the simplest and fastest way I’ve found to make the payment.
SurgeryI walked into the Operating Theater and sat on a medical table in the center of the room, which was clean and had all the equipment you’d find in any OT I presume. It all looked modern and that relaxed me considerably. As all the medical assistants entered the room, Divya had me scroll through his iPod to choose background music. I decided to put on a classical playlist as I thought it would have the best ambiance. One of the operating assistants then put the needle for the IV into the top of my right hand, which stung a bit but wasn't bad. The worst part of the whole surgery came next, which was placement of the epidural. It was like a xenomorph from the Aliens series pierced my back with its tail and started squirming it up my spine. Aside from the initial stinging sensation, the worst part was the constant throbbing on my lower back in the side regions. The throbbing was similar to a throbbing toothache, just in your back, and the pressure felt like a hole was going to burst open. After a few minutes I was unable to feel anything at all from the waist down and I imagined I knew what a paraplegic feels like, or perhaps a tarantula after getting paralyzed by a tarantula hawk. The heaviness of my body was a little unnerving and my imagination raced (what if I had gotten this done on a boat and it started to sink right after? I’d be screwed!) but my concentration soon went on my legs being bent in the air and contorted to various angles as they were covered in Povidone-Iodine. I had something on my waist so I couldn’t see exactly what they were doing, but I saw them maneuver the catheter tube and knew they had put that in already. At that point I was thankful for the epidural.
Dr Parihar arrived not long after and asked me if I had chosen the music playing in the room. I hadn’t realized it but it had switched to Italian opera. “I told Divya that classical music was fine” “Yes but this is way too classical” said Dr Parihar as he switched it to music that was symphony and not opera. I dozed off for a little bit from lack of sleep and woke up with Divya asking me if I was tired. I could see one of my legs being cut into by Dr Parihar from a reflection on the wall to the right of me and looked at it out of curiosity a bit before falling asleep again until I was woken up and told by Dr Parihar that the surgery was over. I then moved onto a gurney and was maneuvered to another room where I was to spend the rest of the day. I fell in and out of sleep until a woman came and told me that she was the physiotherapist. She explained the different exercises to me and had me perform them. Every 30 minutes or so I was supposed to move my ankle up and hold it there for five seconds before moving it down and holing it there for five seconds. This was to be done on each leg for a set of 10. I had to do the same reps and sets for raising my legs in the air and moving my knee toward me. My left leg was unable to move at all but my right leg was fine for some reason.
Divya, Sister Molly (a very nice nurse and one of the operating assistants), and another operating assistant named Sumanyu came in to see me. They said I could have a sandwich if I was starving but said I should just drink liquids and start with light foods the next day, which was fine by me as I didn’t feel like eating. When I woke up again I had three slices of bread and a cup of water. A different physiotherapist came during the day and showed me some other exercises. Basically just tightening my knee on each leg for five seconds and releasing, moving my leg up and to the side, and back raises to help with the back pain from laying so much. After a few hours Sister Molly ordered me fried rice with chicken and egg inside from a nearby restaurant. I told her I could eat anything as long as it wasn’t spicy (non-spicy food was pretty limited up to this point) but I was pleasantly surprised at how good and non-spicy the rice was when it arrived. I hadn’t any pain as my body was still numb, which made doing the exercises very easy. So I did them for a while until I went back to sleep.
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