Quote from: informationispower on September 23, 2022, 09:57:21 PMThe 5'9 refers to most women. The graph based on this study shows that at 5'9 something about 65% would consider dating you (aka you are judged by other characteristics and not disqualified by your height). This is why I dont understand people here who struggle at 5'8 and above... even according to the most blackpilled study, at 5'8+ at least for 50% of women, your height is fine (maybe not ideal, but fine). This is why also the best risk/benefit ratio for getting this surgery is at the heights of 5'5-5'8 as with 2-3 inches you get to a height where most women wont automatically reject you
The problem is 65% would consider you just based on height. You also need a good job, attractive face and physique, and personality. That’s why the 80, 20 rule exists.
Quote from: Sambollio on September 24, 2022, 09:36:22 PMThe problem is 65% would consider you just based on height. You also need a good job, attractive face and physique, and personality. That’s why the 80, 20 rule exists.
I know. But being even more tall wont help anymore. Height is an entrance ticket into the game
Quote from: informationispower on September 24, 2022, 10:37:20 PMI know. But being even more tall wont help anymore. Height is an entrance ticket into the game
I agree with this, height gets your foot in the door and is one of the things people initially judge you on. I see some of my friends who are average height or tall and picture them if they magically got 3 inches taller and pretty much nothing would change about them. They might get treated better in certain situation but even that is not a guarantee.
Sambollio, you can be over 6'0 and unemployed as far as women are concerned. It's height first, and then everything else after that. The video you posted proves it.
I dont know about you guys but I’d like to just be loved and respected without having to become a trillionaire driving a sports car.
I just want to be at peace being myself. And if I pursue a career it will be due to interest in said field not to try and “compensate” because I am not good enough the way I am physically.
I think a lot of guys here are hoping to escape that nightmare through LL as well. Just being able to stand with your shoes off with friends, girls and family a friday evening in an apartment having fun, and not feeling anxiety and subpar due to your lack of height while standing next to others.
Quote from: informationispower on September 24, 2022, 10:37:20 PMI know. But being even more tall wont help anymore. Height is an entrance ticket into the game
I don’t believe that you believe this. Let’s say a woman’s bare minimum to get your foot in the door to date her is 5’9”. You are telling me that being 6’2” won’t substantially increase her attraction? If you believe that it’s cope.
Quote from: AllinStryde on September 28, 2022, 05:04:41 PMSambollio, you can be over 6'0 and unemployed as far as women are concerned. It's height first, and then everything else after that. The video you posted proves it.
No, this is just wrong. Status is immensely important to woman aswell as “being provided for/taken care of”. Height is very important but woman have a huge emphasis on what I said earlier aswell. Also the video doesn’t prove that, it just proves that extremely short men need to compensate a lot. I’m too lazy to go digging around and post anything, but I encourage you to challenge your ideas. Lookup “how willing are woman to date unemployed men” or “how status effects womens attraction to men” etc.
Quote from: Sambollio on September 28, 2022, 08:12:28 PMI don’t believe that you believe this. Let’s say a woman’s bare minimum to get your foot in the door to date her is 5’9”. You are telling me that being 6’2” won’t substantially increase her attraction? If you believe that it’s cope.
A lot of women just want a man who’s taller than them. Being at least a few inches taller is best but not every women wants someone who towers over them. The majority of couples I see in public and the ones I know ( friends and family) the guy doesn’t tower over the girl, he will either be a bit taller or a few inches. And There are a few couples where the height is almost the same, but statistically that will not be as common as men on average are taller than women.
Online dating is a different story as so many people inflate heights, have inaccurate heights of other people, and are overall terrible at guessing height in real life. In real life 5’9” and above will usually never have problems with their height unless you got some height queen or a taller women who wants someone taller.
Edit: I’m speaking from someone who’s in Canada. USA is probably the same, not that different from Canada.
Quote from: Sambollio on September 28, 2022, 08:12:28 PMI don’t believe that you believe this. Let’s say a woman’s bare minimum to get your foot in the door to date her is 5’9”. You are telling me that being 6’2” won’t substantially increase her attraction? If you believe that it’s cope.
I do believe actually. For a woman (and for a man) you need to be above the minimum threshold of her personal attraction, afterwards, everything else is just a bonus. If for a woman 5'9 is enough than being 6'2 wont have such an impact as being atleast 5'9.
Quote from: informationispower on September 28, 2022, 08:55:42 PMI do believe actually. For a woman (and for a man) you need to be above the minimum threshold of her personal attraction, afterwards, everything else is just a bonus. If for a woman 5'9 is enough than being 6'2 wont have such an impact as being atleast 5'9.
You’re greatly mistaken here. If the two men are similar in all regards except the height that 5 inches will be a huge determining factor. Women have so many options now that’s why they are able to slightly change their standards when choosing between two potential partners
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