Quote from: dz93 on April 07, 2024, 11:33:05 AMNice to see you still updating here.
How does this work exactly, are you just in the middle of a random weekday as people go about their day with errands and such, and then women throw compliments at you on the sidewalk? What kind of thing would they say? Would just be nice with a more specific example, as I'm sure this is not a common experience for most people or a bit hard to visualize unless it was in a situation where the context matches it such as with drunk people walking or hanging out in a city's nightlife areas, some kind of festival or celebration, etc.
Now I got curious, how tall are these three women you're dating?
Has changing your height changed your own size/height preferences or how you perceive women's attractiveness otherwise?
Yes, it happened once when I was waiting for an Uber in broad day light on the sidewalk outside of the city centre. I locked eyes with this girl walking pass me, when she all off a sudden said "hi there handsome, gave me a kiss on the cheek and walked away". I was surely shocked and it all happened so quickly I didn't have any time to react.
All of the other times it has been when out at bars, clubs or festivals. Some times women will be very direct and say stuff like "you're very handsome right my face", other times the will send their friends over and say things like "my friend thinks you're handsome". Other times they say things randomly in passing when telling a story when in a group of people like for example "take you, you're attractive" as a part of what they are talking about.
These women are all around 165-170cm tall. Not it hasn't changed my preference actually, I still prefer women who are around 165-170cm. My last ex was actually 173 tall, and all the other have been around my height or a little taller actually.
Changing your self image after becoming taller and maximizing your life:
Quote from: Stand taller on April 07, 2024, 02:10:06 PMYes, it happened once when I was waiting for an Uber in broad day light on the sidewalk outside of the city centre. I locked eyes with this girl walking pass me, when she all off a sudden said "hi there handsome, gave me a kiss on the cheek and walked away". I was surely shocked and it all happened so quickly I didn't have any time to react.
That's ... uh ... definitely an interesting story, regardless of how a guy looks, if she was sane and sober, and if she's not a prostitute looking for clients (some have been known to be quite aggressive). How old was she? What did she look like? Was she alone? So what happened then, she just walked off, you got in your Uber and that was it and you never saw each other again? Never ever heard about something like that happening outside of nightlife type contexts, myself. Getting unsolicited phone numbers on a note with no other interaction, sure... but not straight up being kissed and then nothing more.
The other examples you mention are much more recognizable.
Have you tried any online dating, before and after LLS? As we know, looks and height are even harder thresholds there.
Quote from: dz93 on April 07, 2024, 05:53:39 PMThat's ... uh ... definitely an interesting story, regardless of how a guy looks, if she was sane and sober, and if she's not a prostitute looking for clients (some have been known to be quite aggressive). How old was she? What did she look like? Was she alone? So what happened then, she just walked off, you got in your Uber and that was it and you never saw each other again? Never ever heard about something like that happening outside of nightlife type contexts, myself.
There's a very good reason for that - he's lying. OP, you need to dial back the larping a bit to make it believable. Inb4 'you're just jealous bro', which is always the go-to response of a guy writing Chad fantasies in his basement.
Put it this way: I live in Vietnam where I find it pretty easy to be meeting girls via online dating 4-6 times a week, and average a lay with a different girl every week. Unlike yourself though I'm not stroking myself off about it because at the end of the day any random white guy could come here and do exactly the same thing. The point is though, hundreds of matches a week, lots of girls interested etc, not a problem to be arranging dates for most days. I've banged 3 figures worth of these girls and I set my age cutoff to 22, so obviously my SMV is very high here, much higher than basically anyone's would be in America outside of the ultra elite (which, for the avoidance of doubt, you aint, you're 177cm and gunning for roasties).
Despite all that, you know how many times some girl has randomly kissed me in the street unsolicited? Never. Do you know how often it's happened to anyone else I know here? Never. Have I ever seen it happening to anyone when I've been going about my day? No. Actually, expanding this, has it ever happened to anyone I've ever seen or known of personally in Europe either, including guys who are much taller than you? Nope - as has been mentioned above, these cold approaches by women only happen in bars and nightclubs , and even then you have to be very tall/good looking for it.
Quote from: dz93 on April 07, 2024, 05:53:39 PMThat's ... uh ... definitely an interesting story, regardless of how a guy looks, if she was sane and sober, and if she's not a prostitute looking for clients (some have been known to be quite aggressive). How old was she? What did she look like? Was she alone? So what happened then, she just walked off, you got in your Uber and that was it and you never saw each other again? Never ever heard about something like that happening outside of nightlife type contexts, myself. Getting unsolicited phone numbers on a note with no other interaction, sure... but not straight up being kissed and then nothing more.
The other examples you mention are much more recognizable.
Have you tried any online dating, before and after LLS? As we know, looks and height are even harder thresholds there.
I'm guessing she was mid 20s and cute enough. I don't know, maybe she had been drinking - but I didn't get the sense she was drunk or anything like that. Prostitution isn't very prevalent my city, and this was also outside the centre. She may have been, but honestly that thought hasn't ever crossed my mind. I know it doesn't make much sense, but I've told this story to a few very attractive male friends and they have all experienced similar things. So I don't know how common or normal it is, but what I do know when it happened it took me completely by surprise I just stood there shocked. As I stood there shocked, she walked away and never saw her again....
Yes I have tried online dating, and it is much easier after becoming taller. I've been on like four dates from online dating since June last year, and none of them ever became much more. I have much more success in person, so I don't bother much with those apps anymore.
Quote from: Stand taller on April 08, 2024, 01:42:42 PMI'm guessing she was mid 20s and cute enough. I don't know, maybe she had been drinking - but I didn't get the sense she was drunk or anything like that. Prostitution isn't very prevalent my city, and this was also outside the centre. She may have been, but honestly that thought hasn't ever crossed my mind. I know it doesn't make much sense, but I've told this story to a few very attractive male friends and they have all experienced similar things. So I don't know how common or normal it is, but what I do know when it happened it took me completely by surprise I just stood there shocked. As I stood there shocked, she walked away and never saw her again....
Not my intention to derail too much here with this, but probably you understand why this sparks more questions. Was it like she was expecting you to respond differently than with shock after walking off? Like if we try to imagine it from her perspective, did she suddenly decide to just kiss and compliment this stranger she saw in public, without any intended outcome, like getting his number, or even the other way around, purposely to leave him hanging just because she felt like she could? Was she with someone else so that it could be a dare or kind of to show off to her friends? (Ironic how this behavior is obvious sexual assault if the genders were reversed)
Did your friends that experienced similar situations react differently from what you did and was that also in non-party mid-day contexts like on a random sidewalk?
Quote from: dz93 on April 08, 2024, 02:54:38 PMNot my intention to derail too much here with this, but probably you understand why this sparks more questions. Was it like she was expecting you to respond differently than with shock after walking off? Like if we try to imagine it from her perspective, did she suddenly decide to just kiss and compliment this stranger she saw in public, without any intended outcome, like getting his number, or even the other way around, purposely to leave him hanging just because she felt like she could? Was she with someone else so that it could be a dare or kind of to show off to her friends? (Ironic how this behavior is obvious sexual assault if the genders were reversed)
Did your friends that experienced similar situations react differently from what you did and was that also in non-party mid-day contexts like on a random sidewalk?
Lol, the guy has only managed 4 dates on tinder in 10 months and you actually think he's getting cold approached by women in the street?
Newsflash: a proper Chad anywhere in the world will manage that in a couple of weeks absolute maximum. And even most of those aint getting randomly approached in the street. Guy is 100% a larper, I'd bet my life on it.
Quote from: dz93 on April 08, 2024, 02:54:38 PMNot my intention to derail too much here with this, but probably you understand why this sparks more questions. Was it like she was expecting you to respond differently than with shock after walking off? Like if we try to imagine it from her perspective, did she suddenly decide to just kiss and compliment this stranger she saw in public, without any intended outcome, like getting his number, or even the other way around, purposely to leave him hanging just because she felt like she could? Was she with someone else so that it could be a dare or kind of to show off to her friends? (Ironic how this behavior is obvious sexual assault if the genders were reversed)
Did your friends that experienced similar situations react differently from what you did and was that also in non-party mid-day contexts like on a random sidewalk?
No dude, you're all good. I'm writing here to share and to answer questions. Just ignore the trolls, no need to give them any attention.
She was alone, so not with anybody else. We shared like that stare prior, then she walked over said "hi there handsome" and gave me a kiss on the cheek - and not on the lips just to be super clear. It seemed like she just wanted to do that gesture, since she didn't stop to chat or anything. And tbh, as I said I was pretty shocked so kind of like froze if that makes sense? Yeah, it is funny how if it was the other way around it would not be okay.
Yes my friends have experienced similar things, on the street in broad daylight. If anything similar was to happen to me again, I would probably act very different. Remember I was "scared" to talk to girls out at bars a year ago, but now I can easily approach 5-10 girls in a evening when out.
Quote from: jbfjbj4 on April 08, 2024, 03:22:01 PMLol, the guy has only managed 4 dates on tinder in 10 months and you actually think he's getting cold approached by women in the street?
Newsflash: a proper Chad anywhere in the world will manage that in a couple of weeks absolute maximum. And even most of those aint getting randomly approached in the street. Guy is 100% a larper, I'd bet my life on it.
did you see his thread about how he became a "chad"?
http://www.limblengtheningforum.com/index.php?topic=84949.0
what a cringe fest, couldnt endure more than two paragraphs
Since I find this fascinating I re-read the previous sub5/chad thread.
This thread:
Quote from: Stand taller on April 07, 2024, 02:10:06 PMYes, it happened once when I was waiting for an Uber in broad day light on the sidewalk outside of the city centre. I locked eyes with this girl walking pass me, when she all off a sudden said "hi there handsome, gave me a kiss on the cheek and walked away". I was surely shocked and it all happened so quickly I didn't have any time to react.
That thread:
Quote from: Stand taller on January 03, 2024, 11:56:20 AMAt first I thought it may have been luck, like that first day I was out in May. Later that night a random walking by when I was waiting for the buss walked up to me and said "hey there handsome" and gave me kiss on the cheek. I mean come on, I didn't even know that ever happened to anybody. So after that I started to take notes and write down my experiences so I could measure if it was all luck or a real change. And after seven months and more than 90 positive experiences with women I can confidently say the change is real and not just luck. In the past seven months I have experienced things I have NEVER experienced before. Like that random "hey there handsome" in May, those two girls on the dance floor on New Years, random girls coming up to me and calling me handsome, random girls I chat with a night clubs asking me why I haven't made a move on them, etc etc.
Was this two separate but similar happenings? One was in broad daylight waiting for an Uber, the other at night waiting for a bus?
I remember reading the first one when it was posted but then didn't think much more of it since it was from a night out, when these things certainly happen because people are out drunk and partying.
Quote from: dz93 on April 09, 2024, 03:31:38 PMSince I find this fascinating I re-read the previous sub5/chad thread.
This thread:
That thread:
Was this two separate but similar happenings? One was in broad daylight waiting for an Uber, the other at night waiting for a bus?
I remember reading the first one when it was posted but then didn't think much more of it since it was from a night out, when these things certainly happen because people are out drunk and partying.
Yes this was the same incident. I don't remember all the details about the day, so I may have gotten some of the times wrong. I was out day drinking with a few friends on like a Wednesday, and I was waiting for an Uber or Bolt at a buss stop. It was around 6 or 7 in the evening, or may even have been 8 - but it was like 2-3 kilometers outside the city centre and far from any night life. It was still light out though, that is what I mean when I said "broad day light", but it wasn't like noon.
Hope this clears up any confusion.
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