My Height Neurosis

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Posted on Aug 15, 2020, 3:32 am

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Hi everyone! I am a short Filipino guy from America. As listed below, my height rn is 168 which is 5'6". The past few months have been pretty rough for me. My height neurosis came a few months ago when I learned that a girl who I really liked was taller than me and liked a guy who was 6'1-2". I started to only think about height. There have been days where I would deadass think about nothing but height and how short I was. Add that to the fact that girls on IG and tiktok say that they would never date anyone below 6 ft and stuff like that. I had never felt more ashamed in myself. The worst part is, I can't even control my height. Some people say that its a miracle that I'm 5'6" despite the fact that my mom is 4'11" and my dad is 5'0-1", but it's really a curse. Short height runs in the family. I had never felt this way before because for a while, people didn't see me as the short asian kid. Because was friends with basketball players, a lot of people in high school saw me not as the short kid, but as the asian kid who likes basketball. And when people would bring up my short stature, I wouldn't care. But ever since I had this crush on this girl (call me simp all you want but I don't like her anymore), I've just felt inferior to everyone else. Even upon discovering this surgery, I still feel defeated because of how expensive it is. Sorry guys. Thanks for listening to my TedTalk. I just wanted to vent out my frustration in a healthy manner. Make fun of me all you want. And yes its funny that my profile pic is Nishinoya.

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Posted on Aug 15, 2020, 7:40 am

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So do you have plans? Are you going to work towards a future where you can afford it? Or will it just be an unachievable dream?

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Posted on Aug 17, 2020, 2:35 pm

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So if a girl you like dates criminals will you become a criminal? Surely it would be easier than LL

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Hagane

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Posted on Aug 17, 2020, 8:03 pm

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noya is best boi

lets be honest they all are

My Height Neurosis

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ChefCurtis30

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Posted on Aug 23, 2020, 9:54 pm

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Nishinoya really is the king of short kings lol

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Hagane

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Posted on Aug 23, 2020, 9:59 pm

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Quote from: ChefCurtis30 on August 23, 2020, 09:54:52 PMNishinoya really is the king of short kings lol

at least noya is at peace with his height :')

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dal216

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Posted on Aug 23, 2020, 10:11 pm

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Just look at the Dobre brothers and the hot tail they pull... their listed heights are like 5’9 but they are def closer to 5’6 or 5’7 max:

https://images.app.goo.gl/4UXyfX913EW3agXN6 (the girl is 5’3)

Bottom line is women care about:
1. Money
2. Looks
3. Height

In that order. Forget your height, stack $$$ and I guarantee women will flow your way no matter how tall they are.

Unless you are very very very short or need the extra height for some other reason not involving women I’d invest in some lifting shoes and a Ferrari instead.

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Posted on Aug 23, 2020, 10:22 pm

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Quote from: dal216 on August 23, 2020, 10:11:38 PMJust look at the Dobre brothers and the hot tail they pull... their listed heights are like 5’9 but they are def closer to 5’6 or 5’7 max:

https://images.app.goo.gl/4UXyfX913EW3agXN6 (the girl is 5’3)

Bottom line is women care about:
1. Money
2. Looks
3. Height

In that order. Forget your height, stack $$$ and I guarantee women will flow your way no matter how tall they are.

Unless you are very very very short or need the extra height for some other reason not involving women I’d invest in some lifting shoes and a Ferrari instead.

Quote from: extremis on December 26, 2017, 11:41:42 PMNah

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR3YR1ZTonc

It's silly how on this board of all places, people insist on proliferating this myth that money makes you more attractive to women than height does. I guess it's just a testament to how deeply ingrained the egalitarian virtue signalling myths of popular culture are. After all, it is within the realm of possibility for ANYONE to become rich regardless of their height, race, looks, and so on, whereas it's NOT possible for most people to become tall (even through CLL).

Money doesn't make you physically attractive to women. A wealthy short man, especially one who flaunts his wealth through gaudy/flashy possessions (fancy cars, jewelry, watches, etc) may well have a LOT of "relationships" or even sxxual encounters with women. This doesn't prove that women find wealth "attractive" the same way they find tall or facially good-looking men attractive.

Given the overwhelmingly NEGATIVE sentiment of women toward short men (which I think, or at least hope, everyone on this board is well aware of), this is MORE LIKELY to be an indicator that there are women who are willing to tolerate the man's short height in hopes of eventually divesting him of some (or, through a marriage scam & divorce courts, ALL) of his money, be it in the form of gifts, favors, or whatever. In other words, the perks of dating a rich guy were good enough for the woman to give it up to this short guy that she finds physically unappealing. It's really NOT that much of a stretch, and certainly less ridiculous than assuming women were sxxually aroused by green paper to the point that they weren't turned off by the fact they had to bend their heads 45 degrees downward to look the man in the eye.

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Quote from: dal216 on August 23, 2020, 10:11:38 PMJust look at the Dobre brothers and the hot tail they pull... their listed heights are like 5’9 but they are def closer to 5’6 or 5’7 max:

https://images.app.goo.gl/4UXyfX913EW3agXN6 (the girl is 5’3)

Bottom line is women care about:
1. Money
2. Looks
3. Height

In that order. Forget your height, stack $$$ and I guarantee women will flow your way no matter how tall they are.

Unless you are very very very short or need the extra height for some other reason not involving women I’d invest in some lifting shoes and a Ferrari instead.

Quote from: extremis on December 26, 2017, 11:41:42 PMNah

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR3YR1ZTonc

It's silly how on this board of all places, people insist on proliferating this myth that money makes you more attractive to women than height does. I guess it's just a testament to how deeply ingrained the egalitarian virtue signalling myths of popular culture are. After all, it is within the realm of possibility for ANYONE to become rich regardless of their height, race, looks, and so on, whereas it's NOT possible for most people to become tall (even through CLL).

Money doesn't make you physically attractive to women. A wealthy short man, especially one who flaunts his wealth through gaudy/flashy possessions (fancy cars, jewelry, watches, etc) may well have a LOT of "relationships" or even sxxual encounters with women. This doesn't prove that women find wealth "attractive" the same way they find tall or facially good-looking men attractive.

Given the overwhelmingly NEGATIVE sentiment of women toward short men (which I think, or at least hope, everyone on this board is well aware of), this is MORE LIKELY to be an indicator that there are women who are willing to tolerate the man's short height in hopes of eventually divesting him of some (or, through a marriage scam & divorce courts, ALL) of his money, be it in the form of gifts, favors, or whatever. In other words, the perks of dating a rich guy were good enough for the woman to give it up to this short guy that she finds physically unappealing. It's really NOT that much of a stretch, and certainly less ridiculous than assuming women were sxxually aroused by green paper to the point that they weren't turned off by the fact they had to bend their heads 45 degrees downward to look the man in the eye.

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Posted on Aug 23, 2020, 10:35 pm

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Nice how old extremis posts provides more than enough arsenal to obliterate any bluepill positivity cultish coping that can be found in a forum where men are literally breaking their legs, paying more than 100 grands and living infirmly for god knows how long just to get women, combat heightism and social ostracisation and stop facing oppression in a society that hates men and their plight.

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dal216

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Posted on Aug 23, 2020, 11:02 pm

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I won’t argue with the post, seems like an uphill battle. The author of the bolded paragraph does however concede that wealthy “short men” are able to have sex with hot women (motivations aside). Is that not the point? Does it bother you if a woman is bending over because of your money, attractiveness, height, fame, intelligence, or whatever?

Women are notoriously fluid in their perception of “attractiveness” - straight girls routinely make out with other women for example. It’s fine to be a guy and work to better yourself for the sake of your CONFIDENCE, but to dwell on a woman’s motivations is rather effeminate in my opinion: “does she like me because I’m tall? Or my muscles? Or my dck? Etc.” What difference does it make?

If looking beyond multiple sexual encounters then...Realistically women who are physical 10s are probably not the best wife material anyway regardless of your height; is the objective sex or relationships? If it’s relationships well... even Hollywood stars (tall or otherwise) seem to have trouble keeping their 10s in check for long-term relationships. Or maybe I’m crazy

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