Quote from: 有匪君子 on November 06, 2020, 02:08:45 PMThx.Actually I only want to lengthen myself to make her mother satisfied enough.That's all.Maybe I don't have to lengthen 12cm,because actually my academic performance is not bad.
Maybe someone suggests give up that girl.But the problem will become bigger and never stop.
What if my next girlfriend(And yet suppose another girl loved me.Maybe there will never come a girl accepting me)'s parents wouldn't accept me cause of my height?And that's of high possibility.So I reckon giving up is not a good solution.I dont wanna be a monk.
So sooner or later LL is a must.
As for children,since I knew of LL,I had known numerous knowledge about how to grow taller.So it's impossible that my children would grow as short as I am.You got it right.
Right now I thought over my idiotic plan.I would like to lengthen one of segments at first and then one year later lengthen the another.
In China,because of Chinese culture,when men or women grow up to a particular age,parents will definitely become anxious about why their children are still not married.So first LL can grow me taller and next it can make her parents anxious.
Don't laugh at me.I really hate to imagine giving up a loved girl cause of being short.I think everyone short hates to imagine that and daren't do that.
Or anyone else can help give another piece of good advice??
I understand your situation bro. For some people LL is the only solution. I understand that in your case, if you don't want to leave your gf, you have to grow taller at all costs
Just make sure to do with a good doctor and please get informed well on the matter. Unfortunately this is a surgery that doesn't always end up well. Is it worth risking becoming a cripple on a wheelchair (in the extreme case) in order to have a chance to a family? For some people (like me) the answer is yes. If you are one of these people, then you will benefit from LL
Who also needs this surgery for girlfriend's mother like me??
I support you OP. I recommend getting 8cm on femurs first. Average height in China is 5'8" which is 172cm. You, at 163cm, will reach 171cm, which is just 1cm shorter than average. You will be doing well.
12cm will take too long to recover from as it will require two surgeries.
Her mother is 148cm or so(equals my gf's height).I dunno if 8cm femur can satisfy her.
Because of her mother being so short,on her shoes,maybe she would misestimate my height as 175cm(without shoes).Then with shoes my height would raise up to "177cm or so"(with shoes).
Actually I'm a graduate and aiming for JiaoTong University,but I dunno if that I succeeded in that would change her mother's mind.If so,LL wouldn't be a must.
Quote from: SartBimpson on November 06, 2020, 02:29:44 PMI support you OP. I recommend getting 8cm on femurs first. Average height in China is 5'8" which is 172cm. You, at 163cm, will reach 171cm, which is just 1cm shorter than average. You will be doing well.
12cm will take too long to recover from as it will require two surgeries.
It's my fault that I didn't mention her mother's height.She is 148cm or so.(Anyway she is shorter than me by half head)
Maybe on her shoes,I will be 175cm or so(and without shoes,cause of illusion).
The reason I think of LL is to satisfy her mother.
Myself don't desire to be tall very much.'Just so so' is no problem.
Quote from: 有匪君子 on November 06, 2020, 03:54:52 PMIt's my fault that I didn't mention her mother's height.She is 148cm or so.(Anyway she is shorter than me by half head)
Maybe on her shoes,I will be 175cm or so(and without shoes,cause of illusion).
The reason I think of LL is to satisfy her mother.
Myself don't desire to be tall very much.'Just so so' is no problem.
You mentioned you are a student. This surgery is very costly and very time intensive. Are you sure you can bear that burden of finances and time? It could halt your education for half a year or more.
Quote from: SartBimpson on November 06, 2020, 03:57:58 PMYou mentioned you are a student. This surgery is very costly and very time intensive. Are you sure you can bear that burden of finances and time? It could halt your education for half a year or more.
No.I never want to do LL during my study career(because if I enter into JiaoTong Univerisity,her mother may change her mind).I want to do LL after graduating from JiaoTong University（If her mother still didn't accept me）
Is "enter into JiaoTong Univeristy" code for getting LL?
Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on November 06, 2020, 05:18:04 PMIs "enter into JiaoTong Univeristy" code for getting LL?
No.JiaoTong Univerisity is a well-famous univerisity throughout China.Therefore I guess that can persuade her mother into marrying her daughter with me.If not so,then LL is a must,which I most hope it not to be.
Quote from: 有匪君子 on November 06, 2020, 05:23:04 PMNo.JiaoTong Univerisity is a well-famous univerisity throughout China.Therefore I guess that can persuade her mother into marrying her daughter with me.If not so,then LL is a must,which I most hope it not to be.
Women like your girlfriend's mom seem to be more concerned about enhancing the genetic quality of their grandchildren rather than anything else. That's why I personally don't think she might be impressed with your education as much as she would be with you being taller.
After all, women in the west literally lust after people with 0 education and sexy looks and stature. There has been many cases of literal criminals in the USA that have gained exponential levels of fame due to their looks, such as Richard Ramirez and Jeremy Meeks. Both of them are 6' 1", which translates to 185cm. They are also both very handsome.
They received money in jail and reportedly Jeremy Meeks was making more than the prison guards at the prison he was at. All from women who were lusting after them.
In my opinion, this is the ultimate proof that nothing is in your control when it comes to attraction. It sucks that your girlfriend's mother has such a grip on her personal decisions on who she wants to date, but I suppose some things are just not meant to happen.
What I can say is more height more hope.
Since 180cm+ is funny，172cm or so is the most height I can achieved.Ahhhhh..
So I think if her mother is so stubborn，JT University + 172cm equals 180cm.
Or what else can I do?Nope.I really dont wanna date another girl，for my height.
I have been always discriminated and live a life of low level since my childhood.Its of big bliss that I got a gf who accepted me but then her mother didnt.Its a golden chance to get my own romance，as a short man.So I dont wanna give up her and thus LL is considered
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