DoingItForMe's Precice 2 Internal Femurs with Dr. Paley

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DIFM said that this surgery didnt make him happy, but rather helped him not being sad anymore... Or as he said "Nirvana".

 

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Quote from: TIBIKE200 on February 04, 2017, 09:52:40 PMDIFM said that this surgery didnt make him happy, but rather helped him not being sad anymore... Or as he said "Nirvana".

That's just the fancy Buddhist way of saying happy. He clearly said being short made him suffer. I don't understand why this dude likes to be so dramatic and complicated. Just keep it real dude.

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DIFM

I hope you don't take this the wrong way, just my honest opinion in an open forum.

You are in the fu*ck you stage of emotions right now. That will pass and you will re enter the why did I do this surgery, she was such a good girlfriend, i'll never find someone liker her again, blah blah bullsh*t

The truth is you're better off without that c*nt anyway. Leaving you for this surgery now is far better than marrying that wh*re and then she leaves with half your net worth in a few years. You got lucky my friend.

Your biggest mistake was lengthening 8cm on your femurs, instead of stopping around 5 or 6cm, recovering quickly, and then going back for another 4 or 5cm on your tibia's. You'd be entirely proportional, perfect gait while walking, no tightness everyday, exercising, playing sports with your friends, etc...

In the end it's your choice in lengthening amount that has hurt you the most, not your loss of a worthless c*m dumpster ex girlfriend.

If i had the money and time that you claim to have, i would simply go back and tell Paley to remove 1.5-2cm worth of length in your femurs, lengthen your tibia's 4-5cm, and meet up with this ex of yours when you're even taller than you are now, while walking perfectly and in the best shape of your life.

The winning bet in that scenario is she would be the one to want you back, but the moment you realize that she would want you back and you're not interested, that's the moment you are honestly and truly over that b*tch.

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Quote from: Rod Thick on February 04, 2017, 10:32:07 PMDIFM

I hope you don't take this the wrong way, just my honest opinion in an open forum.

You are in the fu*ck you stage of emotions right now. That will pass and you will re enter the why did I do this surgery, she was such a good girlfriend, i'll never find someone liker her again, blah blah bullsh*t

The truth is you're better off without that c*nt anyway. Leaving you for this surgery now is far better than marrying that wh*re and then she leaves with half your net worth in a few years. You got lucky my friend.

Your biggest mistake was lengthening 8cm on your femurs, instead of stopping around 5 or 6cm, recovering quickly, and then going back for another 4 or 5cm on your tibia's. You'd be entirely proportional, perfect gait while walking, no tightness everyday, exercising, playing sports with your friends, etc...

In the end it's your choice in lengthening amount that has hurt you the most, not your loss of a worthless c*m dumpster ex girlfriend.

If i had the money and time that you claim to have, i would simply go back and tell Paley to remove 1.5-2cm worth of length in your femurs, lengthen your tibia's 4-5cm, and meet up with this ex of yours when you're even taller than you are now, while walking perfectly and in the best shape of your life.

The winning bet in that scenario is she would be the one to want you back, but the moment you realize that she would want you back and you're not interested, that's the moment you are honestly and truly over that b*tch.

Lol this guy is my inner monologue. But Rod, from seeing the way DIFM has reacted to regular LL, do you really think he would feel any better from doing what you said? He's already said that he's happy, so I feel like any more time spent in the hospital would be pointless. He's already won. Unless of course, removing length from femurs could possibly help with his union, then that would be good.

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Quote from: CaptainAmerica on February 04, 2017, 09:54:30 PMThat's just the fancy Buddhist way of saying happy. He clearly said being short made him suffer. I don't understand why this dude likes to be so dramatic and complicated. Just keep it real dude.

He's not being dramatic. I think he's just expressing the truth in how he feels. And this should be a place where members feel ok doing that. I can sympathize with him; a few inches can change your body in ways that are difficult to get used to.  I had a similar issue with my arm length and I was fortunate enough to be able to deal with it. Respect to both of you and your opinions.

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Quote from: CaptainAmerica on February 04, 2017, 10:45:17 PMLol this guy is my inner monologue. But Rod, from seeing the way DIFM has reacted to regular LL, do you really think he would feel any better from doing what you said? He's already said that he's happy, so I feel like any more time spent in the hospital would be pointless. He's already won. Unless of course, removing length from femurs could possibly help with his union, then that would be good.

With all due respect to DIFM, again just my honest opinion in an open forum.

He clearly has not won. He has not won in terms of healing or recovery, and he clearly is not over his ex, despite what he says at the moment. The only way out is to finish what he started, just like anything else in life. He wanted to be taller so he needs to be taller in a way that allows for a proportional look with a full recovery.

If what he says is true about his money and lifestyle, then that is the biggest loss of all. He went from a fully functional living like a rockstar guy to a disproportional low level gimp. That needs to be corrected immediately for him to ever have any kind of real closure in life.

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Quote from: Iamready on February 04, 2017, 10:46:18 PMHe's not being dramatic. I think he's just expressing the truth in how he feels. And this should be a place where members feel ok doing that. I can sympathize with him; a few inches can change your body in ways that are difficult to get used to.  I had a similar issue with my arm length and I was fortunate enough to be able to deal with it. Respect to both of you and your opinions.

You're right. I'm sorry DIFM if I came across as harsh. These diaries should serve as an honest account of how you feel at all times of the LL process. Seeing your opinion on the surgery fluctuate a little bit every update is rather, lol, unnerving, but still very valuable in knowing what to expect.

I just want the best for you man. I want you to win. I truly hope that you feel comfort in your gait and proportions, and that your recovery continues. I seriously can not BELIEVE what your ex said, having an ex say that to me would REALLY sting, and I know it would mess with me heaaavily. I seriously can't believe ANYONE would be so cruel to say something like that, knowing how much you struggled psychologically being short and then physically through the surgery. For her to be so cruel means that she must really miss you. Don't dwell on it, she probably just said that cause now you are taller and dating more women, LOL!

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So another example of LL being just "kick in the butt" rather then pure remedy, nothing new here.

Btw if i can ask, did she say something more about whole breaking up? You know reasoning behind pointing out your surgery.

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Quote from: CaptainAmerica on February 04, 2017, 11:39:35 PM Don't dwell on it, she probably just said that cause now you are taller and dating more women, LOL!

I think he said in his last update that he has been struggling with girls didnt he?

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Quote from: CaptainAmerica on February 04, 2017, 11:39:35 PMYou're right. I'm sorry DIFM if I came across as harsh. These diaries should serve as an honest account of how you feel at all times of the LL process. Seeing your opinion on the surgery fluctuate a little bit every update is rather, lol, unnerving, but still very valuable in knowing what to expect.

I just want the best for you man. I want you to win. I truly hope that you feel comfort in your gait and proportions, and that your recovery continues. I seriously can not BELIEVE what your ex said, having an ex say that to me would REALLY sting, and I know it would mess with me heaaavily. I seriously can't believe ANYONE would be so cruel to say something like that, knowing how much you struggled psychologically being short and then physically through the surgery. For her to be so cruel means that she must really miss you. Don't dwell on it, she probably just said that cause now you are taller and dating more women, LOL!

I appreciate your support. Well yea, it was a kick in the nuts when she said that about my surgery. But I stopped caring after a while. I got all these other girls who think I'm good looking. So I'm not bothered by it as much. "On to the next one" as they say.

Quote from: yyes on February 05, 2017, 12:12:29 AMI think he said in his last update that he has been struggling with girls didnt he?

Nah, I've been doing fine with girls. You might have mistook what I said when I said that I've been single since the surgery. I'm single by choice because now that my dating field is much much wider, there's a lot more options now for me to choose from. And I don't want to rush into another relationship before I've played the field a bit and seen what's out there. I'm really looking forward to dating this girl who's been quietly liking all my FB and Insta photos for the past 3 years, though. She's the kind of hot girl who gets like thousands of likes whenever she posts a selfie. Anyway, she started chatting with me recently, and now we have a date coming up.