RSD Tyler - will change your perspective in terms of height and dating

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Quote from: MrHandsome on April 10, 2017, 04:12:47 AMA lot of you guys are misguided and misinformed on this topic. Let me make this very clear to you. Height is the most important factor in dating period. You cannot compensate for being short except with massive amounts of money and status. Just deal with it.

Under 5'8 and you are in for some real problems, believe me.

A tall and ugly guy beats out a short and handsome guy 9 times out of 10.

The last hit to you guys that believe still in Fairy tailes

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Quote from: TIBIKE200 on April 05, 2017, 10:53:35 PMhave you tried wearing lifts with your new height to see if your theory of "doomed dating" is real? I mean now that you are 5'8, have you put 2 inches lifts to see if being 5'10 or almost 5'11 is having such a huge impact as you are implying?

From my anecdotal evidence, those you have it easier with women and dating in general are the good looking guys who are 5'6 and up.
  Face matters

Look I am very experienced in these matters and in the subsequent sentence I am going to share my opinion on this topic. I am 5'8 barefoot and before I used to go out without lifts. Without the lifts I had no success with women and never got approached. With the two inch lifts in, I am still short, but I get approached by women, whereas before I wouldn't even get approached.

Several women completely stopped talking to me after they saw me without lifts. This anecdote should really clarify things.

Keep in mind that I am also in very good shape, have a full head of hair and have a straight nose. The only thing that I haven't done yet is try steroids. I am planning to use them now.

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Quote from: MrHandsome on April 10, 2017, 04:23:58 AMWith the two inch lifts in, I am still short, but I get approached by women, whereas before I wouldn't even get approached.

Lol 5'10 is short for you?

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Yes it's short in any state school...

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Quote from: Body Builder on April 10, 2017, 12:05:47 AMIf you are short then nothing else matters for a woman.

Anything other drawback in a man's appearance can be compensated for a few or a lot other positive traits.
But the real lack of height can't be compensated by anything and that's a fact.

So I don't think that height is everything, of course it isn't, but the lack of height makes anything else to not matter.
Thats what I'm saying and I really don't know how anyone, especially on this forum, could disagree.

I disagree. Height is a trait of attractiveness, but unless you are super short, it's not objectively the most important one.

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Quote from: MrHandsome on April 10, 2017, 04:23:58 AMLook I am very experienced in these matters and in the subsequent sentence I am going to share my opinion on this topic. I am 5'8 barefoot and before I used to go out without lifts. Without the lifts I had no success with women and never got approached. With the two inch lifts in, I am still short, but I get approached by women, whereas before I wouldn't even get approached.

Several women completely stopped talking to me after they saw me without lifts. This anecdote should really clarify things.

Keep in mind that I am also in very good shape, have a full head of hair and have a straight nose. The only thing that I haven't done yet is try steroids. I am planning to use them now.

You are experienced in what exactly? You said you have no success with women... My anecdotal evidence says that most women dont approach but get approached, and if you wait for them, you will end up a lonely bitter guy.

I know more below 6' than above and 5'10 guys have no problems at all.

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Quote from: MrHandsome on April 10, 2017, 06:30:37 AMYes it's short in any state school...

You are the guy who said 5'7.5 is "very short" so it figures. Let me guess what comes next....the younger generation is easily 6'1 on average, most white dudes are 6'2 and girls on average are 5'8, right? Another paranoid alarmist like we didn't already have too many of you.

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Quote from: IwannaBeTaller on April 10, 2017, 09:57:06 AMYou are the guy who said 5'7.5 is "very short" so it figures. Let me guess what comes next....the younger generation is easily 6'1 on average, most white dudes are 6'2 and girls on average are 5'8, right? Another paranoid alarmist like we didn't already have too many of you.

I am not a paranoid alarmist. Anyone with real life dating experience will agree with me on this assertion. Most young white guys are around 6'2 or more. It's just how it is honestly.

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Quote from: IwannaBeTaller on April 10, 2017, 09:52:06 AMI disagree. Height is a trait of attractiveness, but unless you are super short, it's not objectively the most important one.

Anything under 5'8 is super short honestly.

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Anything under 5.8-5.7 is indeed suoershort for dating.
Some people here can't admit it maybe to feel better with themselves.
But if they don't think their height is a major problem, why they are on a forum that has to do with a so hard (but the only) surgery to change it?

We must be realistic. Noone sane person would do this surgery to become a little better. The 5-7 cm difference in a mans height (if he is from short to just less than average) makes a huge difference, much bigger than having a little better face or sume bigger muscles or anything else.
If you are tall, then with some changes in your appearance and not a very ugly face you have much chances in dating while being short is enough to not have almost any.
If that doesn't make height (or the lack of it to be more specific) the most important trait in a man's appearance then I really can't understand why some people are here and think about LL.

Better go to a gym or buy some good clothes if you are short but height is not the most important thing for you in terms of looks.