For those of you who think you have to be of average / tall height to have success with women and to do well in life, I urge you to look into Tyler Durden (Owen Cook) from the website / youtube channel RSD, short for "Real Social Dynamics." This guy has had a profound impact on my height neurosis in terms of dating and also on my perspectives of life and myself.
I have height insecurities like everyone here, but sometimes you need to have a sense of perspective in life and realize the destructive nature of viewing and obsessing over a flaw in isolation rather than also focusing energy on obtaining superpowers which are more easily obtainable. RSD Tyler for those of you who do not know, is probably the greatest pick up artist in the world. He is 5' 8", has aspergers, always had trouble reading social cues, is balding, and is not the best looking guy, but has mastered the art of coming across as playful and sxxual. He posts videos online which include motivational speeches and well as infield footage of him basically walking up to girls, hugging them, and seducing them in seconds with little words spoken.
I am bringing this up because, say you gain 2 inches in height and think since now you are in the normal range this will help you with women. It will give you a 5% boost if nothing else about you changes. Emulating certain things about Tyler and the other RSD guys will differentiate you from the pack, and the % boost is not even measurable. Instead of seeing a bunch of 6 footers and feeling inferior, you will know that you have superpowers which none of those guys have, and if a couple of those guys have them, good for them, there are tons of fish in the ocean. You can get 200 5' 11" guys with mediocre game and 5' 8" balding Tyler will outclass almost all of them, because instead of obsessing over his flaws, he spent time reading books and stories on Neuro Lingusitic Programming, motivation and success, life, and pickup. Now, we are probably conditioned to only focus on his height when I said "flaws", so read the list again please. Plus he seems sort of feminine and has a weird voice.
Let's all shoot to be taller, but in order to be happy let's minimize the importance of height and maximize the little ember in our core to a burning furnace of knowledge and power.
RSD Tyler - will change your perspective in terms of height and dating
He is 5 8, there are people here that are not even 5 5, what the hell they should do? Forget about the embarrasment, I dont think so.
My friend, you have illustrated my point about flaw isolation. If Tyler was 5' 6" he would still be nearly as successful.
Quote from: MoveUp on April 05, 2017, 03:28:38 PMMy friend, you have illustrated my point about the flaw isolation. If Tyler was 5' 6" he would still be nearly as successful.
There are people shorter than that, like what do you expect below 5'3" guys to do? Height has a role in people's confidence.
Also I'm not really of fan of these types of pick up artist guys.
Quote from: google42 on April 05, 2017, 03:32:03 PMThere are people shorter than that, like what do you expect below 5'3" guys to do? Height has a role in people's confidence.
That Was muy question, what do you think a 160 cm should do?
Quote from: google42 on April 05, 2017, 03:32:03 PMThere are people shorter than that, like what do you expect below 5'3" guys to do? Height has a role in people's confidence.
You make the best of the situation. If the 5'3" guy studied RSD, he would be successful too and his confidence in his inner game would help offset the insecurity over the height. Plus, he could always get to 5'6". The grass is always greener on the other side, a 5' 11" guy may have social anxiety and envy the confidence of the shorter guy.
Quote from: onemorefoot on April 05, 2017, 03:34:59 PMThat Was muy question, what do you think a 160 cm should do?
The 160CM guy should point his beam of mental energy towards the RSD stuff and if he wants, of course he can always add a 2-3 inches as well. I know we are in the conceptual right now, but start watching Tyler and he will turn into a virtual mentor.
Totally crap.
People under 5.7 are doomed in dating and people less than 5.10 have to try harder and be much better in every other aspect (face, built body etc) compared to an average tall dude to have success with women.
I don't care about this guy (who is not short btw but almost average) and his tricks and I don't expect from internet to see what is going on.
I always see that tall guys have everything that has to do with dating much easier than average men and short men are in a very very difficult situation, even with short girls.
Thats the harsh truth and it won't change with what Tyler Durden or other crooks like him say in their videos.
Quote from: Body Builder on April 05, 2017, 03:52:42 PMTotally crap.
People under 5.7 are doomed in dating and people less than 5.10 have to try harder and be much better in every other aspect (face, built body etc) compared to an average tall dude to have success with women.
I don't care about this guy (who is not short btw but almost average) and his tricks and I don't expect from internet to see what is going on.
I always see that tall guys have everything that has to do with dating much easier than average men and short men are in a very very difficult situation, even with short girls.
Thats the harsh truth and it won't change with what Tyler Durden or other crooks like him say in their videos.
Expand your mind man. Dating and attraction is not limited to physical appearance. It is a privilege to be able to learn the game so don't miss this opportunity. I am still a trainee and will report back in a few months.
Quote from: MoveUp on April 05, 2017, 04:17:37 PMExpand your mind man. Dating and attraction is not limited to physical appearance. It is a privilege to be able to learn the game so don't miss this opportunity. I am still a trainee and will report back in a few months.
If your psysical appearance doesn't attract the woman you want then everything else won't help.
If your appearance is acceptable for her then yes, character matters.
But if you are ugly or short etc then character can't help you at least in 99% of cases.
Women are as superficial as men (maybe a little more) in terms of dating.
I wouldn't date an obese or ugly woman even if she were the most intelligent or kind person in the world because attraction has to do mostly with looks.
Thats why these "tricks" are not for serious people, because they are almost insignificant if your looks are bad.
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