Quote from: Iamready on April 05, 2017, 11:11:54 PMI've actually hung out with him and Todd, Julien etc. they are the real deal. Sure they get rejected a lot as well but they have made the most out of their situation. This is several, 10+ Years of experience as well.
Thing is, who doesn't get rejected a lot. Rejection is part of being a man and guys here need to understand this.
Quote from: TIBIKE200 on April 05, 2017, 11:44:52 PMThing is, who doesn't get rejected a lot. Rejection is part of being a man and guys here need to understand this.
I agree. The only reason I wrote, they get rejected, is so people don't think this is a bunch of bull . These infield videos are highlight reels.
Quote from: MoveUp on April 05, 2017, 11:41:17 PMThat's really cool man. Have you done an infield boot camp? I'm thinking of doing it but not sure if it's worth the $2,500.
If price is an issue, I wouldn't recommend a boot camp. It's impossible to get your money's worth in a few days of training. I think the immersion training is more valuable. Start by going to a free tour and go from there. It's really eye opening and I think all controversy aside, they are amazingly skilled and bold individuals.
Quote from: TIBIKE200 on April 05, 2017, 10:53:35 PMhave you tried wearing lifts with your new height to see if your theory of "doomed dating" is real? I mean now that you are 5'8, have you put 2 inches lifts to see if being 5'10 or almost 5'11 is having such a huge impact as you are implying?
From my anecdotal evidence, those you have it easier with women and dating in general are the good looking guys who are 5'6 and up.
Face matters
Yes. When I go out at night my shoes with heels are a good 2 inches.
The difference in how my body looks betweem 5.85 and 5.10,5 is really big and I am taller than the majority (not the vast though) of women with heels which really helps a lot.
If i was 5.11 real height and with these shoes (6.1 ft) things would be really easy for me and I am completely sure about it as even now at more than 5.10 I am at night with shoes on things are interesting enough.
The problem starts when I put these shoes off or when I wear almost flat shoes with girls I date.
They thing that something changed and I can feel it in the way they look at me but they are not sure what it is most of the times.
So in your question, yes, 2 inches more with shoes one make a big difference at my current height.
To Body Builder - I'm 5"7.5 with good build, would being 5"9.5 make a noticeable difference in your opinion?
Quote from: DreamOf180cm on April 06, 2017, 02:40:21 AMTo Body Builder - I'm 5"7.5 with good build, would being 5"9.5 make a noticeable difference in your opinion?
it's a huge difference. Every inch is bigger than you can imagine.
Quote from: DreamOf180cm on April 06, 2017, 02:40:21 AMTo Body Builder - I'm 5"7.5 with good build, would being 5"9.5 make a noticeable difference in your opinion?
For sure.
But if I were you I would go for 2.5 inches to be a solid 5.10.
Then, especially with some shoes with insoles (not any big, 1 inch at max) you'll be about 6ft.
The difference in terms to how people will look to you will be huge.
I would say you can divide the change into two categories:
1. perception of others
2. self perception
I would think 2 is at least as important, as with more confidence you are more attractive and more persuasive.
Nobody should take lengthening advice from any of the dorks with BDD on this site.
Quote from: helloworld on April 06, 2017, 12:14:18 PMI would say you can divide the change into two categories:
1. perception of others
2. self perception
I would think 2 is at least as important, as with more confidence you are more attractive and more persuasive.
Well said. I feel sorry for all the pepole who can't let point 1. go. We are doomed if we obsess over what others feel about us. "Love yourself and others will love you."
Ironically, the RSD guys get more validation than tall good looking dudes, but they had to go through a philosophical transformation to get there.
"Maybe I won't get as many girls giving me the amine eyes when I/they walk by, butttt, once I show them my true self I will get more anime eyes than anyone's ever received."
It's liberating to walk around thinking, "I don't give a pug what anyone thinks about me. I'm the man!"
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