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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 6:56 pm
#111

Quote I just can't command respect or lead a group of taller men


have you considered that you are just not cool enough to lead others?

its not like your joan of arc....... height doesn't automatically make you a leader. if you are a natural born leader you will lead no matter what height you are. I am not even as tall as you and I lead because I am intellectually superior to my peers. but mostly because I know I am a leader.

don't lie, you honestly believe that when you are taller you will magically become a leader. your doubt your self. this is evidence of non leadership qualities. people who are leaders do not sit there making excuses to why others don't follow them. people who are leaders just lead others because it happens on a non conscious level. they just be themselves and others follow. they have an unyielding charismatic quality where others just respond regardless of what they say simply because they said it.

the only people you will be capable of leading after LL are brainwashed individuals who have no substance and follow social programing. leaders can lead anyone not just conformists to social norms.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:03 pm
#112

My ideal height is 1m86, or around 6'1-6'2.  It's a personal choice and even though they are entertaining and fun to discuss, stats and pep talks won't influence my opinion.

Why?  For business and pleasure.  Over that you are not "one of the boys" anymore, you're becoming a bit of an outcast, you don't physically fit in as well and that is not my goal.

At 6'1 people will not talk about your height in a convo, you can have normal social interactions, a nice dating pool and all the benefs.  At 6'2 and above they'll often ask you how tall you are like the main thing that defines you is your height so it is a physical barrier that creates too much interference imo.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:10 pm
#113

A true leader do not want any followers. Example jesus. But remember jesus was average height or a little over, atleast on the pictures shown.

Your true self is the one you don't show to the world

You are projecting your psuedo self to the world.

That what we call reality based anxiety.

You do your thing and others will get inspired to walk their own sadartha road. Or in this case they will copy you and think they are living life on their terms.

Smiling depressants.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:15 pm
#114

Quote from: GROWtalORdieTRYING1 on October 10, 2014, 06:56:48 PMhave you considered that you are just not cool enough to lead others?

its not like your joan of arc....... height doesn't automatically make you a leader. if you are a natural born leader you will lead no matter what height you are. I am not even as tall as you and I lead because I am intellectually superior to my peers. but mostly because I know I am a leader.

don't lie, you honestly believe that when you are taller you will magically become a leader. your doubt your self. this is evidence of non leadership qualities. people who are leaders do not sit there making excuses to why others don't follow them. people who are leaders just lead others because it happens on a non conscious level. they just be themselves and others follow. they have an unyielding charismatic quality where others just respond regardless of what they say simply because they said it.

the only people you will be capable of leading after LL are brainwashed individuals who have no substance and follow social programing. leaders can lead anyone not just conformists to social norms.


This is a much more controversial topic than I thought it would be.

Quote from: G-Man on October 10, 2014, 07:03:10 PMMy ideal height is 1m86, or around 6'1-6'2.  It's a personal choice and even though they are entertaining and fun to discuss, stats and pep talks won't influence my opinion.

Why?  For business and pleasure.  Over that you are not "one of the boys" anymore, you're becoming a bit of an outcast, you don't physically fit in as well and that is not my goal.

At 6'1 people will not talk about your height in a convo, you can have normal social interactions, a nice dating pool and all the benefs.  At 6'2 and above they'll often ask you how tall you are like the main thing that defines you is your height so it is a physical barrier that creates too much interference imo.


I think I know what you mean, 6'1 is a handsome height without being overtly tall I would like that as well. As I live in sweden and you are north american (I think) maybe add 3 cm to make it 189. I would be very content with that height.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:21 pm
#115

This talk about "alpha-males" is ridiculous. Most of you guys are obviously insecure, LL won't fix that, it will only harm you, because I don't think you (average people who want LL) are "hard" enough to endure LL.

I was a leader at 165cm, I am still a leader at 173cm and I would have been a leader at 120cm. Height is a non-factor here. I was ALWAYS the shortest with really really tall guys around me (195cm) but you know what? Height doesn't mean   for that, you need to have personality for that kind of things you are wishing for.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:24 pm
#116

Quote from: 123 on October 10, 2014, 07:21:38 PMThis talk about "alpha-males" is ridiculous. Most of you guys are obviously insecure, LL won't fix that, it will only harm you, because I don't think you (average people who want LL) are "hard" enough to endure LL.

I was a leader at 165cm, I am still a leader at 173cm and I would have been a leader at 120cm. Height is a non-factor here. I was ALWAYS the shortest with really really tall guys around me (195cm) but you know what? Height doesn't mean s**t for that, you need to have personality for that kind of things you are wishing for.


You was beta at 165 and you are still beta at 173cm.
If you wore true alpha which in most cases is auto since adolecence then you would never been aware of height and changes it like you. So you are beta. But whatever you say bro.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:28 pm
#117

Quoteyou need to have personality for that kind of things you are wishing for


exactly. What is your ideal height and why?

and now a side note for perspective:

2)Average Height (Entire population/adults-All ages over 20 years,20+)
 Country/Average Male Height (cm)/population

Sweden 179.3

QuoteAs I live in sweden and you are north american (I think) maybe add 3 cm to make it 189. I would be very content with that height.


you do realize that your saying you will only feel content when your 4 inches above the average height. I think you are overcompensating with height for lack of your other qualities.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 7:46 pm
#118

Obviously I compare myself with young men (avg 181-182) since I am young and male myself.

Yes to truly feel content with my height I would like to be tall though I'd be happy with something around my dads height (187). Otherwise I would not be happy with my height but no one is happy with everything and that's okay. Please don't start calling others insecure or overcompensating, none of us are in any position to judge anyone on here.

I am of course very insecure about my height, the fact that I'm considering cosmetic surgery (along with all of you) should be proof enough of that and finally while there is nothing wrong with disagreeing or criticising what I think and say please do so with moderation to not make this an argument.

I started this thread to get opinions on what the best height range is and why. If you feel like I crossed a line at some point I'm sorry.

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 8:07 pm
#119

Quote from: Slim_tim on October 10, 2014, 07:24:52 PMYou was beta at 165 and you are still beta at 173cm.
If you wore true alpha which in most cases is auto since adolecence then you would never been aware of height and changes it like you. So you are beta. But whatever you say bro.


Lol, stfu. I did it because I could. You have obviously real problems at 165cm. Ever tried buying jeans? Ever tried joining the military? So please don't talk like this, because at 165cm you are in the 95 percentile (if you even know what that means), so you face real life struggles, because the world is build for men around 178cm.

And btw can you explain to me how being "alpha" (which is btw a ridiculous word and a retarded concept) should make you unaware of your height? 

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Posted on Oct 10, 2014, 8:10 pm
#120

First, let me clarify my point on natural selection. If a person lacks the traits to mate with a certain person of high attractiveness/mating value (which is usually indicative of good child bearing abilities) because of that person's height standards, but LL makes then tall enough to be attractive to that person and mate with her, then the LL patient has effectively out competed all of the men who would have otherwise been the mate of the female in question. Though genes aren't directly involved, you are clearly seeing competition for mates and behavior (LL) affecting its outcome, so that the LL patient's genes are passed on with a desired and probably person whereas they might otherwise not have been. Having your genes instead of another man's inside the offspring of a "high value" woman might ensure longer term survival of your genes than if you'd mated with a less desirable woman without LL. The kids would have your genes and those of the socially valuable woman, and the woman's genes would probably ensure that the children with your genes fare well in the mating game as well since she has many attractive genes, or more than the women that you would theoretically have had without LL. It's a stupid and over simplistic theory, but I thought that it would be fun to throw it out there for the sake of discussion.

Wannabegiant, when did I say that I demanded or deserved the extra benefits that height has on leadership? Nobody deserves anything. Nature is randomness. Order and symmetry amidst this infinite randomness is a large component of beauty. But, back on track. We do the best to live the lives we want to live. Nature doesn't owe us anything and if we don't have it but really want it, we have to get it for ourselves one way or another. If I want something, I'll do my best to get it as long as it doesn't harm others unfairly. Of course justice is quite subjective, but I don't see anything morally wrong with me getting LL at average height. I could buy a car or house, but I'd rather upgrade myself and fix a long-standing insecurity instead of buying a car or house that won't give me nearly the pleasure and confidence that more height would. Call me greedy if you want to, but then call all luxury car buyers, game console buyers, and flat screen  TV owners greedy too.

When did I say height automatically makes a person a leader? I didn't. I said that a person of average height has to work harder and do more to be perceived as a leader. I stand by this. What's wrong with trying to change myself to be more easily perceived as a leader and as a desirable, admirable man? Sure I don't need it, but I don't need my nice TV or clothes either. I view height as a much better investment than anything else. It won't just give me benefits, it will cure a long-standing insecurity too. My whole family is tall except for me, and it does kind of make me feel jealous and bitter because everyone in my family gets these benefits that I don't, and I want to feel more like one of them. I feel like my current height conflicts with my inner identity. Soon I'll have the power to change that. Getting taller will be a luxury, but what's wrong with obtaining and enjoying luxuries if you've worked hard enough to obtain then fairly? You yourself talk about wearing nicer clothes than others to increase your value above that of the average 179CM dude. How are you not greedy while I am? I'd say we're both greedy. Humans are innately greedy.

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