I think you should view this as a new start to life. and focus on the future instead of the past.
im sure you will get all the status you want and all the girls you can handle when your back to 100% 
good luck wannabegiant, and I wish you a speedy recovery
oops I didn't realize this thread was a few months old lol my bad. this is probably ancient history by now.
How much did you lengthen and what was your starting height?
Quote from: GROWtalORdieTRYING1 on September 24, 2014, 10:47:52 PMI think you should view this as a new start to life. and focus on the future instead of the past.
im sure you will get all the status you want and all the girls you can handle when your back to 100%
good luck wannabegiant, and I wish you a speedy recovery
Hey man thanks for the encouragement 
, youre right i should focus on the future instead. and yeah ure right, not ancient but a lot has changed since my last comment here.
it seems this girl wasnt in a relationship with that guy, and now she is doing some abroad study program in Bali with some friends, but interestingly, she hasnt uploaded any pictures on her fb or instagram despite having been there for over a month. Her two friends she traveled with have updated both of their fb and instagram with photos regulary, one of them do it several times a day.
This girl i like is tagged in a few of her friends photos which they uploaded of course, but i find it weird how she isnt uploading anything her self and not commenting on any picture. When i used to hang out with her she posted lots of photos all the time. She started to change around the time i ditched her, but honestly after all this time i thought for sure she should be back to normal, but as mentioned she is still not acting like she used to in regards to social media.
I cant help analyzing this stuff when im in my current condition, fortunately it seems i might be able to remove these frames within 2 weeks from now.
Quote from: Shor7Guy on September 24, 2014, 11:42:12 PMHow much did you lengthen and what was your starting height?
Why don't you read his diary? Anyways, he went from 175 to 179.
Quote from: Wannabegiant on September 25, 2014, 12:21:42 AMfortunately it seems i might be able to remove these frames within 2 weeks from now.
That is awesome news! How is your walking at this point? Do you still feel especially attracted to this girl?
How do you plan on beginning to increase your social value now that you're taller? I am about your new height and I can tell you that a great social life doesn't happen automatically at 179. You've got to really work towards it. I think that's the case at any height though.
There's no doubt in my mind that it will be easier to get to where you want to be, socially, at 179 than 175, but having a plan of how to get there would still go a very long way.
How are you going to reintegrate into your old world?
Quote from: Shor7Guy on September 24, 2014, 11:42:12 PMHow much did you lengthen and what was your starting height?
I was 174-175 cm, now i am 178-179 cm. So its a decent gain, enough to be noticable but not so much that it will be obvious i did some surgical incision, only my close friends would realize the change immediately i think.
I live in Sweden though, so now i am close to average height here, and taller than ca 95% of women id say.
Quote from: Taller on September 25, 2014, 12:27:33 AM
That is awesome news! How is your walking at this point? Do you still feel especially attracted to this girl?
How do you plan on beginning to increase your social value now that you're taller? I am about your new height and I can tell you that a great social life doesn't happen automatically at 179. You've got to really work towards it. I think that's the case at any height though.
There's no doubt in my mind that it will be easier to get to where you want to be, socially, at 179 than 175, but having a plan of how to get there would still go a very long way.
How are you going to reintegrate into your old world?
My walking inside houses (floors) is very close to pre-surgery level, and i can make it look 100% normal with a little bit of extra effort, no pain and legs feel quite light despite having the frames on. Walking outside on sloping ground is still a bit tricky though, but its improving and im sure with the frames removed it will instantly get easier due to not having he ankle pins in the way.
About the girl...yes im very attracted to her physically, that hasnt changed a bit.., her personality is entertaining also, but unfortunately i have many negative thoughts about her after how she treated me like a loser at times. Its a dilemma, part of me still wants her despite knowing that she probably isnt the right girl for me, even though she appears to regret her behaviour..
Yeah true im aware that being average height wont give me any significant social value automatically, however i have a very unique appearance, and i plan to add lots of muscle and train mixed martial arts as soon as i am allowed to. I will look like a guy that you dont want to mess with since i have a masculine menacing looking face, i dont intend to act like bully or douche (i hate that sort of thing) but i know that if i look tough i will get respected even if the other guys have 3 times as many likes on their photos as i do.
Also i dont have any trouble talking to new people, its just that im to proud to initiate new conversations with new people sometimes and if i notice that i have to work harder to get noticed i usually stop trying, but im sure i wont have to work nearly as hard in that regard now, which will make me more motivated to meet new people.
Also with the height problem gone, i can finally focus on doing things i should have done many years ago if i wasnt depressed..things like getting a drivers license, finishing my university program, dress more nicely, add muscle mass as mentioned, stuff like that..
Also i dont necessarily care to be super popular, i doubt il ever get there but it doesnt bother me. Considering how ty most of my life has been in comparison to most people where i live (at least those i know) im sure il be able to appreciate being decently popular more than the average dude who didnt have to work for it at all.
congrats on 2 weeks left, the finish line is in sight. I skimmed over you diary also.
it always surprises me how long it takes to start walking again even after consolidation 
You worry too much man , becarful don't let your mind drive you too much thinking about the past isn't good for you at all and you will gain nothing , how did you know she rejected you cuz of your height ? If I was you I would fouces on what I'm doing now think about the future get in shape imagin your self in 6 month from now how woul you look like how your life gonna be , and trust me you will be happy .
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