I was wrong

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Quote from: jerkey on October 09, 2017, 04:29:37 AMAlso, I don't understand the part about constant confrontations. How did you know?

He means that you see life as a series of confrontations where you need to constantly be on the defense if you don't want to get stepped on. You are literally preparing for it (your words). If your walking through life feeling like everyone is going to bully  and that's what your going to attract. You are right about bullies attacking the vulnerable, but's its not physically vulnerable, its the vibe you give out, its how you carry yourself.

It's a  ty life because you can never relax. Your trying to make yourself like stone so you don't get crushed, but you need to be like water, relaxed and confident knowing you are ok where ever you are. Be zen. Chill. And if you need to slap a dude (98% if the time it will be a verbal slap) for stepping over the line then do it. Then go back to flowing, like water down a river.

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Quote from: Alu on October 09, 2017, 04:02:23 AMWhy is there such a primal/cynical view in this forum about how life is like today?

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height is important for everyone under 6'.
After around 6-6'1, not so much. Women just want a tall man. You wont catch them checking out a taller man, just because hes taller. It balances the playing field a lot.

Now if you are below average-average-slightly above avg in height, you're not considered tall. Hence, women will always look at tall men as dominant.

Its like if your girl has a nice butt. Would you really look at a girl with a nicer butt and be checking her out like youve never seen it before?

Now lets say if your girl doesnt have a nice butt. And then theres a girl with a very nice butt. Im sure your eyes would wander and you would check her out.

Its same with height.

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Quote from: MirinHeight on October 09, 2017, 06:41:58 AMheight is important for everyone under 6'.
After around 6-6'1, not so much. Women just want a tall man. You wont catch them checking out a taller man, just because hes taller. It balances the playing field a lot.

Now if you are below average-average-slightly above avg in height, you're not considered tall. Hence, women will always look at tall men as dominant.

Its like if your girl has a nice butt. Would you really look at a girl with a nicer butt and be checking her out like youve never seen it before?

Now lets say if your girl doesnt have a nice butt. And then theres a girl with a very nice butt. Im sure your eyes would wander and you would check her out.

Its same with height.

No it's not the same with height. Zac Efron's girlfriendis not going to droll over the 6 foot juggalo workign at the gas station just because he's tall. It's about complete sexual market value, not just height, height adds to it of course. Girls can be just as shallow as men but there not guys, most dudes would fck a female hobo with a bangin body, most girls wouldnt. So that analogy doesn't work.

Also I love how your "cutt-off" is 6 foot+. Coincidentally you're 5'10. Honestly I dont usually judge the tall guys who want LL because to each their own but cmon bro. At 5'10 any problems/inadequacies you have are your own and nothing to do with your height

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I had to do it bro - homeless guy who gets shelter from going to their places 

Also, with all the modern times feminism and stuff, isn't the importance of looks in men increasing? Since they are supposed to feel guilty living off a man and stuff.

What if the previous dude lives in Netherlands?

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Quote from: jerkey on October 09, 2017, 03:07:17 AMI think heightism is also regional. If you go to the bigger cities, girls seem to care more about money.

correction: they care about money but they still care about height, if not more than in smaller cities.

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Quote from: jerkey on October 09, 2017, 07:35:36 AM

I had to do it bro - homeless guy who gets shelter from going to their places 

Also, with all the modern times feminism and stuff, isn't the importance of looks in men increasing? Since they are supposed to feel guilty living off a man and stuff.

What if the previous dude lives in Netherlands?

Lol this guys awesome. But you know what i meant. Plus this guys super persistant approaching every night and charming and he doesnt "look" like a hobo. You get my original point though.

Honestly im so sick of talking about this (not with you Jerkey, with the whole forum).

Long story short: Height plays a part of life but its not everything. Don't relay on LL to make you happy. If you feel you want LL to improve your life then do it, if you don't then don't. If you want to believe that women won't touch anyone under 6 foot then belive that, if you want to believe otherwise then you can believe that too. If you want to feel sorry for yourself because of your height then feel sorry for yourself, if you want to feel like a king at your height then feel like a king.

you guys can continue your conversation im tired of talking about this

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Quote from: Zeo on October 09, 2017, 05:03:14 AM

Women are not so complicated as some people think.
On the contrary, I know women very well as I have a lot of experience with them (long term and short term relationships) and I have a very certain conclusion about them: they need to feel protected.
It is stupid in the modern world but it is true. They want a big man who treat them good but also is independent and always have choices more than them, so they think he is precious and they should try to keep him with them.
The first one means a big body (not always very tall but of course average and more and also not skinny but preferably built, not too muscular though). The second has to do with character but a man with the appearance I mentioned always has choices with women and that changes his character too to become more independent and self confident.

So I am not cynical, women are cynical and I just mention what I saw through my big experience (good and bad) with them.
Yes, there are exceptions but that doesn't change the rules. If someone is not like what I've written before then he'll never become successful with women.
If he doesn't care about that then yes, you can have a normal life with being less than average (not very short though) but if you want a spectacular life which means a full dating life, being short is simply an obstacle that can't be overcomed. Even if a Cruize was the sexiest man alive or a homo sleeped with 500 women and all these bs.

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What bodybuilder is saying is true. It's not like he's saying that you have be 6"2. He says at least 5"7.  Of course it's not impossible to get women at a shorter height but it is much harder. And for one reason or another we are here because we know we want a better height than what our genetics gave us.

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Quote from: Bander72 on October 09, 2017, 12:09:26 PMWhat bodybuilder is saying is true. It's not like he's saying that you have be 6"2. He says at least 5"7.  Of course it's not impossible to get women at a shorter height but it is much harder. And for one reason or another we are here because we know we want a better height than what our genetics gave us.

You are not 5'7''. How can you even know? How can you tell a man who really has that height that he has it extremely hard when you have never lived his life?