Quote from: Thatdude950 on January 01, 2017, 10:54:10 PMthe point is to see if it makes any difference in the first place. hint - it probably won't.
and yeah, the fear of taking your shoes off when going for a swim definitely warrants crippling yourself to avoid it. if something unimportant as being "caught" wearing lifts gives you that much anxiety, i guarantee you will find a way to feel self conscious about yourself post lengthening too. we see it here all the time. the self consciousness just shifts from being short, to having odd proportions, walking funny, having scars etc etc.
To be honest, he does have a point. A lot of our problems here stem from the feeling of being inferior to other men, of having a huge visible deficiency of your body that you cannot change. If you wear lifts, you will feel better some times, because you are visibly taller, but you will also be constantly aware that this is not your real body height, and that the soothing feeling of being taller is an illusion. At the same time, you will still be towered by some people, and that will make you feel even worse, thinking "I still look ridiculously short compared to these men, how would I look without my lifts". A horrible feeling, let me tell you that.
Let's be frank, this problem is in our heads. It's a mental issue that is inseparably linked to a physical issue. Logical explanations can help to an extent, but often not completely, to people who have such severe mental inferiority issues as many here. Just like some people feel being the wrong gender, they are objectively healthy but still suffer with their body.