What is the ideal male height?

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Quote from: meursault on March 01, 2015, 06:50:36 AM
Obsessing over university status, what a joke man. This is really a huge thing in Asian culture, isn't it? The sooner you realise attractive 6'1+ losers who never went to a university that stack shelves and pump gas for a living are getting more tits and pussy snapchats on the weekly than you will get in your entire life (and in general living a superior life to you, going to more cool parties than you, banging badder bitches than you), the better.

hard hitting red pill.

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Quote from: meursault on March 01, 2015, 06:50:36 AMI think you're missing the context of the graph. The point was not to autistically break out your ruler to find the highest point (which is only infinitesimally larger than the 6'4" and 6'7" points really), but to show you that your 'too tall' hysteria is irrational and that tall men aren't these freaks shunned by women like you like to convince yourself.

The source is data collected from okcupid, the graph is on the page

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/

Also, this isn't taking into account other factors. This is just a graph of height and messages received without being controlled for anything else, so of course it's going to jump around slightly (using the same logic you applied to the graph being 5'3" would be superior to being 5'4" which is laughable). I'm just demolishing your 'too tall' nonsense, as though men above 6'1" are totally undesired by women. You made it out to be as though really tall men are these sexual pariahs women want nothing to do with. So much for that asinine theory.

Obsessing over university status, what a joke man. This is really a huge thing in Asian culture, isn't it? The sooner you realise attractive 6'1+ losers who never went to a university that stack shelves and pump gas for a living are getting more tits and pussy snapchats on the weekly than you will get in your entire life (and in general living a superior life to you, going to more cool parties than you, banging badder bitches than you), the better.

By the way, I have another interesting thing you can mull over if you're so fascinated with the points on a graph, my friend. From the same source (http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/)



How can you honestly go so quick from spouting how awful being 'too tall' (anything above 6'2" to you, according to your posts) is to arguing semantics with me when I was just trying to show you this 'too tall' nonsense you were vomiting up earlier was total bullcrap?

Its not bull . You are the bull- ter who didn't go to university. I dislike chatting with people of low IQ but for the sake of explaining myself. I will sympathise and explain.

The graph obviously shows that there is a plateau and a peak. That plateau starts at 6'1. Given that returns diminish above 6'1, it is illogical for someone who is 170 cm for instance to want to reach 6'5.

This is ALSO supported by my own anecdotal evidence. I put this question to you again: Do you want an opinion poll on a girls' forum like flower pod or cozycot in Singapore?

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Quote from: meursault on March 01, 2015, 06:50:36 AM
Obsessing over university status, what a joke man. This is really a huge thing in Asian culture, isn't it? The sooner you realise attractive 6'1+ losers who never went to a university that stack shelves and pump gas for a living are getting more tits and pussy snapchats on the weekly than you will get in your entire life (and in general living a superior life to you, going to more cool parties than you, banging badder bitches than you), the better.

haha oh my god. dude, the popular guys in my community are mostly 173, 175, 178 maximum. I've never heard of a 180 guy being popular yet. Apparently some here think that 180 is good, and I just doing it not for girls, but to feel tall here. I found that to feel tall here the minimum is 182-ish.

perhaps American culture is differnet. but here in asia, nope. the average guys (or slightly tall guys) are more popular

dude Ive so much good sex banging 18 year olds pretending I am 18 sometimes. its a good life., you are one jealous prick.

and for the record, the only dating app I use, when my height is 183 vs 178, there is no difference. Because the average here is 172. Anything significantly above average, theres not much difference. IN fact, when I put 183, mostly only taller (and not as attractive) girls speak to me. SO I will choose perhaps 181 or something:D

as far as Asia goes, average or slightly above average is better, or 182 (above average, close to too tall). perhaps its the entire pop culture here of being pretty boy.

if the gay or bisexual community is similar to girls, then the most ideal height appears to be about 173-178 here. At least, with the guys I know. I guess we can draw a similarity between girls and gays.

So, yeap, not too tall 

to be honest, I am now about 180 and I don't know if I should push it to 183. I was very worried about becoming "too tall".

I mean
* I want a good dating life BUT
* I want to feel tall

Those are two mutually exclusive things. If u were to ask me, I think feeling tall is more important to me than getting the most girls. If I get more girls at 178, and it is proven, I will still go to 181 in a heartbeat. 182 maybe not.. its all about balancing.

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oh trust me, if your theory is correct (and mine is wrong, ie there is no such thing as too tall), I will gladly wanna go to 188cm.

But truth is, according to law, taller is not better; it is better to a certain extent.

I really wanna go above 6 feet in my country, because I wanna feel tall here.

BUT it will adversely affect my dating life.

if your theory is right, I will lengthen beyond 6 feet.

Sadly ur wrong.

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oh yes instead of me being insecure (yes I did my research and decided my final height, it is firm as stone), are you the insecure one?

are you the one without girls? (read my posts, I even had girls love me when I am crippled as I am now. and them complimenting my llooks and my physique (six pack)).

tell us, what is your starting height? I am sure I am bursting your bubble. You must be about 182 wanting to lengthen to 190 or something.

Please get a grip of yourself or suffer an acute MI (I know, as a medical student I shouldn't be so mean, but who was talking nonsense all this while and insinuating that im insecure??)

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theres a possible theory though, that our cultures are so different that you have a different mindset. to any Asian, your mindset is distorted.

a good height here is probably up to 182 or 183 maximum. beyond that, there are diminishing (or negative) returns.

for top leadership positions, our prime minister has been consistently very tall (185, 182, 187) But they are more of the anomaly. most MPs here are either short or average, or slightly tall.

there are two possibilities
* you have mental illness and/or a lack of education and/or distorted mindset
OR *our cultures are too different that it is impossible to extrapolate my findings in Singapore to your country (where are you from?)

either way, my assertions about what happens in America is just a theory. I am sure this is what happens in Singapore, and quite sure it happens in America. But as I have read in other posts, there might be cultural and societal differences

I am inclined to take the first view that you have mental illness etc because I don't think two societies can be so different. we have a very western culture., we speak English, we read English, we listen to English songs more than Chinese, etc.

this is what a university education means. I have essentially obliterated your entire baseless accusations and asinine theories. this is a good argument. I was telling my lawyer friend I developed a past-time of arguing with people on the internet because I can control my emotions very well and it makes  me pleasured to see them flustered and at a losing end, being totally defeated by my valid arguments.  I have enjoyed this debate, and hope you can reply to me senselessly again. one advantage of a forum is that both views are put in black and white, and members can see how foolish (and the gross logical fallacies within) your reasoning is.

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Re: sex partners graph showing that 195 cm has more sex partners.
First, how accurate is the source? second, the fact they have more sex partners DOES NOT mean that they have more dates and long -term relationships. the girl probably thinks ah, this guy is too tall for a steady partner, he is just a one night stand 
it is a joke how fragile your arguments are. please go to high school at least.
even if you are correct, which is unlikely, it might just be a construct of the west, as in asia, the situation is diametrically opposite. the good looking guys tend to be about 170-178, maybe 180 is pushing it. the very tall guys here eg 183++ are usually not good looking, and thus they get less guys and girls.

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This forum,is getting weirder each day without an admin

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I"m 183 cm and now I want to be 195 cm which is reachable, because of this thread

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ItsMyLife, if you really wanted to be 6foot2, youd be welcoming to information and believe it, cus people believe what they want to believe. clearly you want to believe 6foot is too tall in your country, i doubt you think you can reach 6foot2, whether it be money problems, time consuming or proportions.