So a few months ago, I posted a thread asking if Limb Lengthening was worth it and if it would dramatically improve my life. The thing that triggered that post is that there is a girl that I liked and she rejected me. Initially, I attributed it to my height and my looks and I figured, if I could be a bit taller, then I would have gotten here.
I was dead wrong.
Today I found out that this girl is dating a guy that is 5'5 and is below average in the looks department when it comes to the face. The only reason I am posting this is because sometimes we think that doing this procedure will improve our dating life. And perhaps it will. However, this situation proves that not all girls are shallow. She is actually a very pretty woman. So not all girls are shallow and sometimes they look more at other things such as:
How does the guy make her feel?
Does she find him weird?
Is he funny?
Etc.
Just some food for thought guys. Sorry to ramble.
Also, this doesnt mean that I am not getting the procedure. I still might but i know that its not all about the height.
You are right and you are wrong.
Yes there are definitely girls that don't care about height as much. But it's a numbers game. There are more girls that do care about height than those that don't.
In my own experience I have dated a good amount of really attractive women and in all cases I was the shortest guy they have ever dated at 168cm. This tells me that yes you are right, even if a women are attracted to taller men, they can overlook the height when there are other redeeming qualities. I hate the fat girl/short guy analogy but it has its merits. Some guys would overlook a woman's weight for other redeeming qualities but there are more guys that wouldn't than would.
That being said, I'm glad you've come to this epiphany and I wish you only happiness.
Quote from: biggerdreams on October 07, 2017, 04:11:22 AMYou are right and you are wrong.
Yes there are definitely girls that don't care about height as much. But it's a numbers game. There are more girls that do care about height than those that don't.
In my own experience I have dated a good amount of really attractive women and in all cases I was the shortest guy they have ever dated at 168cm. This tells me that yes you are right, even if a women are attracted to taller men, they can overlook the height when there are other redeeming qualities. I hate the fat girl/short guy analogy but it has its merits. Some guys would overlook a woman's weight for other redeeming qualities but there are more guys that wouldn't than would.
That being said, I'm glad you've come to this epiphany and I wish you only happiness.
Agree. To give an exmaple - I was dating an estern europen girl way out of my league just because she knew I make $150k (too much from estern europen standards) and I used to spedn a lot of money on her, when I stopped pedning and asked her to marry she became reluctant, then fight ensued and she called me 'midget' , so you know. Same kind of thing with another Indian girl, after meeting me she said you are good looking (and I am, I look like jason statham) but I would prefer someone taller even if the guy is average looking because I like tall guys (I am 5'5"). so..
and to cheer up all short guys here - Victoria Silvstedt (my dream girl) is dating an almost midget (but rich, though not very rich) guy, she left her 6'1" husband to be with this guy , Mena suvari is dating a 4'10" guy (not rich), so love happens between short and atractive tall women but that is exception not norm.
Yves if you think that because one girl is not superficial about height the majority of women are like that then you'll soon hurt again from another girl.
Height is the number 1 factor in a man's appearance. When a woman talks to her friends about a new guy the first they are asking is if he is tall. Not handsome, not built, not dark or blonde, tall.
So it is very important and that won't change from one girl's choice.
So if you really feel ok with yourself then good for you and forget LL.
But if you think from the example you mentioned that height is not very important then you'll soon regret and want to do LL again.
The only reason she is with him is for the money. Once the money leaves she'll leave. This is almost always the case when you see an attractive girl with a short guy. Oh well.
So are most people in this thread regulars at r/incel and r/foreveralone? Sure seems like it.
Quote from: KiloKAHN on October 07, 2017, 07:26:38 PMSo are most people in this thread regulars at r/incel and r/foreveralone? Sure seems like it.
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Quote from: MrHandsome on October 07, 2017, 07:24:03 PMThe only reason she is with him is for the money. Once the money leaves she'll leave. This is almost always the case when you see an attractive girl with a short guy. Oh well.
Not all short guys are rich though (I wish).
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